Would you ever marry a black woman, and why or why not?

[Anonymous]

Would you ever marry a black woman, and why or why not?

One with big oval eyes, has a doctorate, small round nose, pale caramel skin, straight medium hair length, fit and curvy, social, virgin, and cares for others a lot.

Or would it be too much to bear in term of family and friends.

[Genya]

Well it depends on how much financially you are dependent on your family. I am a female and I would marry (if I wanted to marry ... I don't really want to ever marry or care for that thing) ...but if I wanted to marry, I would marry someone I loved even if they looked " too different" in my family and in my society as long as I could have my own place to live and my own money to support myself. In that case it would be NOT their business to tell me who to love, how to live...I earn my own money, and I don't tell them with who to live or love...I just accept my mother even though many things she does I would never agree with...But if you do depend on your family for financial support : for example, they help you out with money, they provide a living space for you, etc... - then it would be not a good idea. You'll end up being "bullied", living in "a closet", having to love someone always in secret, always hiding as if you are doing something criminal...- that would hurt you more than just giving up the idea of marraige... There is another option,though, if you do love the woman so much that you want her in your life, but you do heavily depend on your family (financially, or even if just emotionally), then just stay with that woman as close friends...(and lovers, of course, in your personal lives, BUT no one can ever know about your personal sex life in that situation). Then, if they ask you why you talk to that "black" woman? You say " what's wrong with just talking? If talking to a black person is a bad thing, then you are racist!" They'll shut up...Then they'll ask, where is your girlfriend? You answer: "who I have sex with is my personal business"...End of conversation. ...They will suspect you might be gay, or you might have that black woman -but it would be only suspicions...- not too pleasant but not too horrible to handle...By the way, I would not consider a pale caramel skin as black. May be African-looking in features, but black? I don't even consider Barack Obama black as he looks like almsot white in color to me. He is Afro, but not black in my opinion. But I'm not from this country so I take words with literal meaning...I am from Russia, and our race there is "Slavic" - not "white". But here, with my white-colored skin, I am more white than Slavic really in the eyes of society. I had the best African brown skin lover of 3 years, and he would be "hiding" from me in public from a similar fear that you have. I totally understood that, and we would not show off in public. We would be just friends in public - it didn't bother me... It is amazing how many people would approve of your love for a dog - A DIFFERENT SPECIES - but your own species would be considered way toooooo "different". Isn't it so mentally screwed?

[1-3-2-4]

Eastern European women are nice but they act so timid

[thedesperateromantic]

Umm I don't know where you live but the last time I checked being black or any other race didn't matter anymore. Marry who you love, and who loves you.

[MrOracle]

I'm not in any hurry to marry ANYONE, but I've dated black girls before and frankly I didn't give a crap what anyone else thought about it. I've also dated white and Asian girls. Myself, I'm a mix of about 50% white, 40% Mexican, and about 10% Native American.

If I like the girl, I like the girl. Skin color doesn't matter much to me.

[Racez]

Yes, why not? She's also a person with human feelings , has one nose, two eyes, two hands, two feet, and just like me. It's only the color of the skin, it's not a big deal. It's what is inside that counts.

[Longshot]

Not the marrying type, but casually dating a black woman now who is highly educated with a great job. Don't really care what family or friends think.

[nicksleo10]

why not? if she's a nice person ..and loves football I would even marry a blue girl ;p

[Anonymous]

This is a really dumb question...

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but I'm cynical about marriage.

[Dovahbear]

No. I'm straight.

[Beetledove]

What?