How do I treat him after he used me?

[Anonymous]

I assume a coworker used me for either 1. my body or 2. an ego boost - or both, considering he stopped pursuing me after I rejected sleeping with him. He's in my group of friends at work and we eat lunch together. He's also in my department but we don't work together often, if ever. How should I treat him? Do I ignore him? I still like him. Sucks.

[BatDoc]

You're not going to sleep with him. You already have your answer. He's looking for sex. Treat him like a friend or don't talk to him. He probably doesn't care either way now. You've already put yourself off the market in his eyes.

[Yos36]

need more info, like how many dates did you have, what went on and stuff, because maybe its yours fault?!.,

[Asker]

we slept together 2 times on work trips - no feelings, then I fell for him. then we hung out in a group like 4 times, never went on dates alone. he texted me all the time and smiled at me at work, got nervous around me, tried to talk to me a lot, etc. then he slept over and I rejected sleeping with him.i asked him if that's all he wanted and he said he's not really like that and that we could get to know each other without sleeping together.no contact outside of work since...this was a week ago.

[vmw2008]

Act like you could care less. Treat him like normal. He's only "used you" if you act like he has. If it means nothing to you, then he's used nobody.

[Anonymous]

Just ignore him and don't let him have the satisfaction of knowing you care.