He USED me to make HER jealous, advice?

[Virago]

he's my best friend, and she's a new student at uni

he liked her, A LOT, so he made her a bit jealous by using me, he starting holding me and hugging me when she's near by, asking me for massages and stuff..

other than the right to be angry at him (hoping that what he did was an unconscious act).. how should I treat him now?

we're still close friends.. I never told him that he really messed up, because it's just who I am.. I don't share my "feelings"..

but if you were me, what would you do? how would you treat him after this?

btw, after all this, the girl still rejected him :P

[likewoahhh]

you should let him know that he hurt you and that he's an asshole.

if my close "friend" did that to me, I would ignore him for a while.

but I'll eventually forgive him, but I'd definitely be pissed off.

but.. do you like him? is that why you're upset about it?

[Virago]

no no.. I don't like him.. and right now, I don't even like him as a friend

I mean I can't even look at him, eye contact seems hard to do because I'm actually despised with what he has become!

we're going through a rough patch now, we rarely talk.. I avoid talking to him because for God knows why, he's been a bit down.. and I kept asking him day and night what's wrong.. etc.. for a month now.. I just don't need the extra drama and a PMS-ing guy! :S

[likewoahhh]

ohhhh, well .. one of my guy friends really liked a guy so he asked me

if it was okay to use me to make her jealous and I was fine with it..

because I didn't like him and I was helping him. but it didn't bother you?

like I don't really understand why it would bother you unless you liked him?

i'm not taking sides or anything, I'm just wondering why you feel that waaay.

[Virago]

it bothered me cause he didn't ask me

or explained his actions.. he just went along as nothing happened..

he didn't even notice what he did, it was like everything is normal, and that it's OK to use his friends without telling them...

what if he liked another girl later on, will I let him use me again? never..

[Anonymous]

look at him and say: "now was all that worth it hmm" with a not impressed look on your face. He'll know he made a d*** of himself