Girls can you please help me thank you

[Anonymous]

well here's a long story into a short version. there's an extremely beautiful girl that I went to high school with and we had a class together in our senior year. I don't know her and she doesn't know me. we both are in our first years of college and summer is near. my friends do know of her and some do know her. I've lost more than 45 pounds. should I tell her I've had a crush on her ever since that class? should I tell her about me losing weight for me and for a little for her? thanks. and girls if you can please respond I don't really want to hear from guys. thanks

[elda_1111]

if you don't know her, don't hit on her. try being friendly, talk to her, go out, show her how cool you are, how funny you are. try to get to know her better, her personality. she may be a real beauty, but maybe your personalities don't match. if everything goes perfectly, maybe try to flirt with her as time goes by. about the weightloss, I don't think its a good idea to tell her asap that you lost weight for her. show her that you are confident in you own body, and that you did it for you.

[thegirlnextdoorxx]

No sorry it's too sappy for someone you don't even know. Become her friend first! Maybe she'll appreciate it more if you get to know her. You have no idea how she'd react otherwise and she might embarass you or be really embarassed herself.