How to tone upper body without affecting lower body?

Anonymous
When I started losing weight, my arms were the first one to go, then my belly followed. My legs got a little thinner but still not proportion to my skinny upper body. So I continue to lose weight, now I achieved my goal size for my legs but my upper body got freakishly skinny it's not even attractive anymore. I seriously look scary and I don't even want to wear revealing clothes anymore, so my friends and family would stop freaking out about my bod. I want to gain a few pounds but I'm kinda scared :( how can I healthily improve my upper body? I want a little meat on my arms. I was thinking of going to the gym and lift weights but I doubt I can lift anything in the gym. Any suggestions?
How to tone upper body without affecting lower body?
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