Well, it's somewhat sweet and wrong in a way. I get what your saying. I don't think it's entirely wrong, but it would probably be best that you tell her first. There are plenty of women who keep themselves virgins for their marriage, mostly for religious reasoning. However, not all the time does the religion require the male to be a virgin as well. It is perferred, but not necessary in some cases. if she's okay with it, what's the harm? Its somewhat flattering, but yeah you're right about the double standard. In any case, good luck.
It depends on the woman.
Virgin means no vaginal intercourse. She could have done other things...
A virgin might want to experience other men. After marriage she's likely to cheat for this reason.
A virgin might have loved someone else, given her soul to this other guy.
... Another women who might not be a virgin might be due to rape.
It's not your reproductive organs but your mind that makes you whole or incomplete.
Personally I find it hypercritical to expect chastity and virtue from someone when you're not holding yourself to those same standards.
And I completely disagree that women lose parts of themselves with previous lovers, that hasn't been my experience whatsoever.
But I have no interest or intention of marrying you 😉 And really this is only going to hinder your life having these unrealistic expectations so meh
Im really tired of men asking questions about this. You already know what you want so just do it. Stop making us read your thoughts, disagree with those that are opposite and then try to impose your thoughts like you're the protector and so awesome. These are cultural and old thoughts that many are aware of. Go get the virgin and stop making us read this tripe.
You can desire whatever you want, but the reasoning behind it is very stupid, and yeah, I'll say wrong too. It is pretty judgmental of you... Not to mention hypocritical.
A part of them is taken away? Really... So, they are damaged goods now? Not worthy of love...
No, I think when a virgin gets laid, they take a piece of you :(
Also, you realize that many women aren't in love with their first right?
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Your way of thinking is out of sorts. But ok good for it.
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i don't think what u wishes is wrong... honestly this is what i wish too... but nowadays it's very hard to find a virgin, specially at USA... so yeah i guess it's valid what u want for a wife, since girls want some very specific for a guy to be her husband...
but still what you have done in the past, depending to which extent u have done that, needs to be addressed properly... it would be very unfair for other men who would eventually marrying those chicks you had sex before... that's why you need to do something to repair your past sins if you really want a successful marriage with your beloved virgin one... good luck
well thats ok if you want a virgin wife the question is can you be faithful and loyal to this girl when you had multiple partners let's be honest a virgin wife still needs to learn a lot in bed, are you sure that you will not get bored? you are used to good experienced girls in bed make sure you have to be patience with her.
a woman waiting wants a guy who is waiting. this has nothing to do with gender pints of view. its the view of people who believe in saving themselves for marriage., meaning they believe their partner should save themselves.
why would you think they would feel differently about your virginity than theirs?
To want that? Sure.
To reject a woman you really like cause she isn't a virgin? Shallow.
You dont have to be a virgin to be capable of only loving one person.
Sure no problem with that, but let her have multiple partners before she marries you and after that she will remain a virgin for you, as you can pretend she was one when she married you.
Kinda hypocritical to want a virgin as a wife when you continue sleeping around.
Being a hypocrite is indeed wrong.
But I guess there are some girls who are virgin and wants a non virgin, not sure though.
You know what you want great. But think of how easy it is to lie to someone. Unless your going to marry a 10y in this day and age. Good luck. I'm sure there are some out there that are if age.
You do know she could always just lie about the virgin part. And is in it cause you have the pure heart she's been looking for.
Virgin pure women look for men like them. Not sullied trash.
Im marrying the man eho took mine and I took his! Would that count?
If you find that attractive no harm in going for it
I've had multiple partners, and i understand its not right to ask for what i can't give.
I want
But I want
because I want
And i want
Were you spoiled as a kid?
yes its wrong and you're insecure
a woman from Saudi Arabia will be your best match
I don't see how being her first sexual partner means you're her first love or vice versa.
It is indeed wrong. Women don't loose part of themselves after each partner.
I think it is very possible because virgin men actually repel most women. ( virgin or not)
i am virgin n i want a virgin guy ,, if u want virgin it is better to stp sleeping with others
the heart wants what the heart wants
You can want what you want
ignorant is not the same as stupid...
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