Would you marry 💍 a non virgin?

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I wouldn’t marry date a girl that’s had sex. She doesn’t deserve love, at least from me.

Women want marriage but don’t want to be wives. They want to wear a white dress 👰‍♀️ yet aren’t pure.

No I don’t believe in God. But I understand the truth.

razelove · Accepted Answer

Yeah, I've only been with one virgin before, and though I prefer it, as you'll never hear about an ex, it's wildly improbable, especially as you get older, unless you want to fish in the kiddy pool or some shit.
I 100% get the desire for a woman who has no experience, because she's a blank slate, but look at reality. What are the chances that YOU are the man she's holding out for? It's slim, and get's slimmer every year the girl turns into a woman. 12.3% of women 20-24, 14.3% of men.
www.theatlantic.com/.../
Again, what special something are you going to bring to the table that makes her want to open up her... heart... to you, and not the 10,000 guys who shot their shot before you?
I just don't see the point in chasing the improbable, or hunting, well, basically kids, because you want a blank slate, when you can get someone on the rebound who's desperate and just as willing.
Desperate people who will do what you want, when you want, how you want for attention aren't going to change just because they've had sex, more so they'll get taken off the market if they find a good partner, and stick to them like glue.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Marrying a virgin is obviously the ideal, because it gives a much higher chance of a loyal wife who deeply bonds with you for a successful and lasting marriage. That's just a fact.

But the reality is there are very few virgins left these days. My focus instead is on finding a woman who has not been promiscuous and has only had sex in loyal, committed relationships. It's the next best thing, and the only realistic option now for good men looking for a reasonable chance at success in marriage.

To all the women out there who complain about the "double standard" men have with respect to promiscuity... men are not the problem, women are. Men simply hold women to a higher standard than women hold men. Instead of asking men to lower their standards, why don't you just raise your own standards? Hmm?

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Considering I'm not a virgin yeah I would marry someone whether they are a virgin or not, I don't care as long as we love each other

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'd  rather  marry a non-virgin. They have experience.

AviatorTom · Answer

When I married my wife, a long time ago, neither of us were virgins. We had both had experiences with other people. Our marriage lasted 20 years and 3 kids, and ended in an amicable divorce.

Summeroflove · Answer

I believe in God and the answer is yes. I’m aware nobody is perfect. It more depends on who she is now.

EricSummer · Answer

I would absolutely not restrict my choice based on the unimportant point if she has had sex before or not. There are much more important things such as loyalty.

I think wanting a woman who has "never been touched before" is a creepy fetish.

Women, just like men, are capable of forming strong bonds to each other multiple times in life. It is also possible that they have sex with a few candidates who turn out not to be suitable. If they are on a quest for love, should this count against them?

stepyo99 · Answer

The ideal is that she's a virgin, of course, but realistically I didn't save my virignity for marriage so it would be hypocritical of me to expect my future wife to have done the same. She does need to have a low body count though because like you all ready said, the more partners she's add the less able she is to be monogamous.

Berethor · Answer

Can't know for sure but I don't want to compromise on that, virgin women are wife material.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I've dated girls that were virgins. I think waiting until marriage is special, though honestly, once she loses her virginity, eventually, 1 month down the road, 6 months down the road, maybe a year, 2 years, she's going to wonder what sex is like with another guy and maybe even cheat.

Girls get curious just like guys do, but if you think you can keep her interested, prove you're the only one she'll ever need, go for it. Hopefully it works out.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I wouldn't marry a woman that doesn't know how to be a wife. I've been down that road. I cooked every meal for 10 years straight. You can't be bothered to learn how to make a burger? To the streets.

That said, if I've been in a horrible accident, I want my surgeon to have performed an operation before. Get good at it. Not be like "okay well... let's see what this does!"

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yeah, I almost did and would have 2 other times. What does god have to do with any of that?
Besides, with most virgins getting their cherries popped by the age of 12, my chances of EVER finding one are slim to none!! How many virgins are there out there between 25 and 65? The only ones I'd know of are those that had a sex change and never had sex afterwards.

SamIam96 · Answer

Marrying a virgin would make me very nervous.

A woman in her late 20s who's never had sex has very low sex drive. For me, that's such an important part of a relationship, I wouldn't want to be with someone that didn't feel the same.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Insofar as sexual compatibility is a major determiner of whether a marriage can last, and you can't know if you have that without having had sex, you clearly don't even KNOW the truth, much less understand it.

exitseven · Answer

Neither of us were virgins but we both had really small body counts. I was good with that. It was something we discussed once and never thought about it again.

Anonymous · Answer

I have been with a virgin guy before and it was not very satisfying tbh. He didn't know what he was doing and he usually lasted all of about 2 minutes. I would much rather be with a guy who has enough experience and skills to satisfy me.

Anonymous · Answer

Apparently there's a lot of guys that don't care if other men have banged their wife and now they get the leftovers. What a load of cucks our society is producing smh.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

It would not matter to me. I would rather marry someone I know will go the distance than such a small thing as virginity.

Anonymous · Answer

You understand what YOU believe to be true, your truth. It's not THE truth. So, are YOU also a virgin?

Anonymous · Answer

At my age is there really any other option? At this point virtually every woman has f***ed at least one guy and most multiple guys. It's not ideal, but it is what it is.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely... you gotta try it before you buy it to make sure you are sexually compatible.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Maybe if you live in a religiously oppressed society you can do that.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I'm a virgin and I wouldn't marry someone with a body count of more than 2.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Not only would I but I did marry a woman that wasn't a Virgin.

Shiningtempest · Answer

I'd rather marry a woman who's a virgin. Woman who isn't a virgin is one of my deal breaker because I see it as a sign she'll have an affair.

najekim · Answer

My current wife was a single mother when we married.

Anonymous · Answer

you're the type of guy that other guys bitch about, you know? 😂😂😂

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course, and I did.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I don't think I'd have much of a choice

Fireguy17 · Answer

I would and I have, twice.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Yes I would

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Pure virgin

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