Considering that the person would have been lying to me all this time about something this big I wouldn't consider our marriage valid. The whole foundation of the relationship would have been built on lies and deception. It would also show you that the trans person thinks very little of me and what I actually want, it would be all about them and selfishness like that cannot exist in a loving and giving relationship.
Unconditional Love from Above would tell You... More in Store with your own Feelings from your own Heart right from the Start.
Good Luck. xx
If I was already in love and happily married, it would bother me but I wouldn't leave them.
How could you possibly get married to a person, and NOT KNOW she was Trans?
I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with that, as Trans women, are, really 'women' but they have a penis.
So what? How would someone not NOTICE that, before being married?
Even Stevie Wonder would be like "Hey, baby, you has some extra stuff downstairs!!"
I would be pretty upset that somebody in a committed relationship with me chose to hide something that important. I'm not sure that I'd be able to stay with that person, both because they withheld something huge from me and because frankly I don't find a transexuals attractive.
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u How could a reasonable person get to the point of marriage without knowing their partner's past?
There's a little thing called an Adam's Apple, and if "she" always wears a scarf or collar, time to start worrying. There's a reason why the victimize people at night club's where the lighting is dim and it's harder to tell. Broad daylight, different story.
Ouch. Hard to say...
I hate sex change, seeing it as no more than a costume, but I don't know if I could simply dump him on the spot. I don't want to kick someone out for just what I felt was a terribly poor choice, but I could absolutely never get the fact that she's a man on the inside out of my head...
📝 Note to self: Always ask if a girlfriend is trans at some point before marriage!
I'd hate to be that asshole but that is kind of a big deal so it'd be over. But you can tell most of the time, hands, feet, skin texture, eyes, bone structure barely change regardless of surgery or treatments.
Well, on the one hand, that's a pretty big surprise.
On the other hand, you pretty much have a pass to keep whatever you like secret.
I think I would know long before I married the "person".
I'd be so mad, enraged, probably hurt and disgusted. Divorce!
My biggest issue would be the fact that she wasn't just honest about it with me. but honestly if she was the girl in the pic. id just drink till i forgot that it ever got revealed. then proceeded to have sex with her next morning
I hope that I would never face this nightmare, but if I did then we will be getting a divorce immediately.
If you are born a man then you are a man no matter how hard you try to pretend to be a female. You are a fraud...
I would never marry someone without having sex, do that wouldn't happen.
Also, first pic is blatantly a dude
Probably get my eyes checked right after I throw that dude out of a window.
How would you not know? Didn't it check before accepting the package lol?
Thanks to premarital sex I'd know it before marrying. :)
I would seek divorce.
... Why would I only find out after marriage?
I'd demand a divorce or annulment immediately.
Lol, no way I wouldn’t know.
I would punch them on the throat
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