Boyfriend won't spend new years with me?

[Darkfairie17]

We have been together for almost a year (New years is the anniversary that we first met).

Earlier last week I asked my boyfriend if he would spend New years with me. He said to me basically what if he wanted to spend new years with his family, or do something else.

I understand he's not obligated to spend new years with me. But I was down visiting my family, and he sort of manipulated me into coming back down to where he lives. I live in the same city as him and I go to school there. My parents live 45 minutes away, and I don't have a car. None of my friends drive either so them coming down is not an option.

I would go back home for new years, but I start school again on the 3rd and am unsure if I would have a ride to get back here in time for school anyway.

I feel like crap because for Christmas he never invited me over to meet more of his family. I was okay with that, until I found out that his cousin's girlfriend was allowed to go :S

Does this mean I don't mean anything to my bf? I'm starting to feel that way.

I am already depressed, as I am not sleeping well and the holidays are always a rough time of year for me.

What should I do? I have no friends here that I can hang out with, all have already made plans that don't include me :/

[Hyrule]

If it feels like you are not a priority in your boyfriends life then I think you should tell him. Explain what you think is wrong and how you want to change it. Give him a chance to understand clearly and better himself. I you feel like things doesn't improve then I suggest you find someone that will give you the love and care you deserve. ^^ Hope this helped.

[martyfellow]

I'd invite yourself to go with himto be with his family, Put him to a test and make him make a decision, and see how he handles it. This will tell you SO much about him in general, as well as how he really feels about you.

[martyfellow]

Thanks darkfairie, for the best answer. How did it turn out?

[Darkfairie17]

I just sat at home and watched tv. I don't even remember what he did for New Years haha

[browolf]

Well it doesn't sound like you mean that much to him. Go home and leave him to it. Don't they have buses where you live?

[Darkfairie17]

They have buses where I live, but my parents live out in the country. The buses don't go out that way and to take a taxi would easily be over 100 bucks.