Girlfriend mad at me for adding other girls on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend gets mad at me when I add other girls on facebook, girls that I am good friends with. She even makes me delete them at times. What do I do?

[bohemiancleopatra]

don't break up with her she's just like any girl that really cares or loves there boyfriend would panic about that she's just worried to loose u to one of them thats why she's telling u to delete those girls she might have either grown attached to u but any girl that is freaking out over a guy Facebook is a girl that cares and is more worried about losing there boyfriend or there boyfriend becoming close to them instead of her and i would just keep the girls u added be more open with ur girlfriend about what u talk about with these girls or just what ur doing and the more u don't make a big deal about this the less she will but thats as long as ur open and honest with her like i believe u but she may not because she's ur girlfriend any girl who has had a boyfriend would be worried reguardless if there just friends or not u making her feel secure in the relationship that she's not gonna loose u will make her feel better and not worry to much and word of advice don't talk to ur female friend more then ur guy friends or girls that are just friends cause she will expect something and will get mad and will worry do whatever u half to do to avoid a argument with ur girlfriend cause arguing i know u don't wanna deal with

[Paris13]

When I got up with my husband from Egypt, even Before we had tied the knot, we both deleted Everyone we had because----We just wanted to be alone, share everything for just the two of us.
But of course, before This, he had Another account I had found out about, with family and a few Arabic friends... However, not girls, just guys. Nevertheless, I was mad as hell.
Talk this over with her. If it bothers her so much, which really, I don't blame her at all, then this has to be discussed and some sort of Compromise has to be made. You need to decide: Is it worth the hassles and the risk of losing your relationship just to 'Add other girls on Facebook' who you probably don't give a hill of beans about?
It's just the Principal here, not even so much as a trust thing, in my book.
Talk it over... Think it over...
Good luck. xx

[ClassyB_tch]

Tell her to stop controlling you. That's not normal and definitely not healthy for a relationship. I'm sure she has guy friends on facebook, why can't you have girls? That's crazy controlling.

[BertMacklinFBI]

how else are you supposed to make more FB friends? hahaa. I think she can chill. tell her its just FB and it doesn't define shit. its literally just social media so what is she so worried about?

[Kevinphotographer]

You should tell her that they're just friends, and if she still wants you to delete them, she has serious trust issues.

[Anonymous]

Break up. You don't need someone that is THAT controlling. Plus she should trust you anyways. & we all know a relationship without trust is like. & what happens when or if you break up & you deleted all of your friends out of your life? Because if she's making you delete them from Facebook I'm sure she doesn't want you speaking to them in person either. It's just not fair to you honestly.

[Burgundy]

She sounds really insecure and controlling. Relationships should be about trust and respect, none of which she is showing you. I recommend talking to her about how this level of control is unhealthy and even abusive. Hope this helps. xx

[523206720]

Ignore her. You shouldn't have to give up your friends for her.

[Am3thy5t0]

you're lucky because i'd so cut off your penie!

[ArabianPwincess197]

As far as platonic she shouldn't be worried

[Blueeyes81]

Do what you want. She doesn't own you.