Sexual Attraction VS Innocent Attraction?

[Anonymous]

There's a difference, and I'm kind of curious GUYS how a girl can get a guy to lean more towards being sexually attracted to her than innocently attracted? And how would I know if a guy was already sexually attracted to me, and didn't just find me "cute"?

[sexyasianboi26]

I've got nothing to say about Innocent attraction but..

Sexual attraction is true love at its prime. And when the man and woman are sexually attracted to each other, the feeling is magnetic. The thing is, our society and the media demonizes it. Because when your feeling sexual attraction, you are helpless and you don't know why. The maturity of the man and woman, and how both of them approach each other, defines if its a "cupid shooting love arrows" or "succubus possessing the person". Like I said, society and media likes to demonize sexual attraction, and mostly calls it "lust".

[cowsert101]

Just bring the topic around to sex a few times. It will at least subconsciously get him associating you with some amount of sexuality.
As to how to know, wear something that emphasizes your best physical aspect and see if you can catch him checking it out.

[Asker]

so its probably a good sign that a lot of our conversations include something sexual at one point or another and have good amounts of innuendos in them, yeah? or is that just 'cause he's a guy? :p

[cowsert101]

for the most part ya, that is a good indicator that he at least recognizes you as a sexual being.

[Jonny_]

There might be a difference in technical terms but usually both are found in any person worth dating... I think it's possible to be attracted to a girl in only a sexual way without being innocently attract. But I think if you're innocently attracted to someone you're often also sexually attracted to them. I personally couldn't date someone i'm not attracted to, for practical reasons and for moral reasons.

[RandomStudent]

Seeing random girls walk by I'll be sexually attracted. Some girls just have a cute look, those are the girls I usually want to date. Cute girls > Sexy girls

[molan]

I'll agree completely - Cute girls > Sexy girls.

[Asker]

this didn't answer my question (s) at all, but thanks I guess for sharing your preference? uhh..

[RandomStudent]

Well I was informing you that being a cute girl was better than being a sexy girl, because it seemed you thought it was worse. But if you truly want to be looked at more like a sex object than relationship material, just dress slutty. That's my answer.

[OralAddict1445]

Kinda confusing the way you put it but I mean if your attracted to someone most the time there will always be a sexual aspect somewhere to it

[MothMonsterMan]

To me, "Innocent" Attraction is sexual in a way. There is something kind of arousing to a lot of guys about corrupting an "innocent" girl.

[carnix]

How he looks at you, he makes innuendo, he flirts physically, makes sexual banter..

I don't know what innocent attraction is... I'd say sexual attraction is a lot more common.

[AlwaysBelieving]

What do you mean by "innocently attracted"? Maybe I'd be able to answer the question better.

[Asker]

Like with my crush I'm sexually attracted to him because he's sexually appealing to me with the way he speaks, walks, acts, etc. But then turn around and I have a guy friend whom I'm innocently attracted to - I admit and see that he's an attractive person, but he doesn't turn me on or I guess necessarily do it for me. He's just an attractive person to look at.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Thanks for the clarification. Yes, I think it's it's possible. It's happening right now over here as well. While I do notice that she attractive, I not sexually attracted to her (I think the first time I called, she thought I wanted to date her).