When it comes to getting "just sex" I think ugly guys have it worse. There are guys willing to lower their standards to get easy sex, while girls actually have HIGHER standards when they are looking to hook up. So an ugly girl can get laid more easily than an ugly guy.
However, for relationships, the ugly guy has more options to mask his ugliness (talent, money, personality). An ugly girl will pretty much just be reserved for guys who are desperate to get sex, but they will generally avoid comitment.
Well at least when it comes to dating, even the ugliest girls still have options. Unfortunately, being a woman and vagina makes you privileged in the dating scene, while guys are basically second class citizens in that aspect. And sadly (I have to say it), there are guys who have no self-respect whatsoever who will fuck any walking thing with a pair of boobs. Women are much more wary on who they date or who they have sex with.
In other regards such as getting respect from your peers, as someone else pointed, then yes guys have it much better there. Among men looks don't matter so your achievements or your prowess at things will gain you respect from other men. Women on the other hand don't really gain respect on their abilities and achievements since socially, even among women, what they wear and how they look will give them that higher status.
Being a ugly guy for sure! I'm a girl and although girls are more judged about how they look, fixing their hair makeup and nice clothes can do magic. Guys don't have that luck. Generally when it comes to dating even hot guys have difficulties find a girl imagine a ugly not-rich guy, i bet you never heard a girl offering sex and being refused so. Damn you're f***** up.
Being an "ugly woman" in this shitty society is MUCH worse then being an "ugly guy" Mainly because girls have it a lot worse with the media then guys do, with looks anyways...
There are a lot of ugly people out there and they can all date each other and find love with each other.
Problems doesn't come from being ugly.
Problems come from being judgmental.
Only if someone judges others for the qualities they themselves lack they feel terrible about themselves.
There are ugly people happily in love all over the world that its statistically more probable for u to be ugly and be happily married than it is for u to be ugly and be single forever.
that's tough. on one hand, a girl, no matter how ugly, can at least hide some of it with makeup. if you're a butt-ass ugly guy, you're fucked. on the other hand, girls are judged (both by guys and girls) on their appearance. at least girls have shown way more often than the opposite that appearance isn't as important.
Men can gain respect without physical attractiveness easier than women.
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Anonymous
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being an ugly girl is def much worse! you see it all the time.. real ugly guys with really hot chicks! thats because, if the guy is ugly, he could get a lot of money, a really nice car, whatever.
but lot of money def won't help a ugly girl. thats why you dont see ugly girls with hot guys
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Anonymous
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It depends on if the guy is shy or not. Women can be shy because they aren't expected to approach so a confident ugly guy could still approach an ugly girl even if she was shy because her being shy doesn't change the fact that the guy is still approaching.
All that guy has to do is lose weight, shave, and treat his acne. And even if he didn't, there would be at least SOME girls who'd still go for him if his personality is good enough.
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Anonymous
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Just look at the poll, being an "ugly woman" is much worse. At least with an "ugly male", some women might date him if he has a decent personality, power/status or even money. I don't think that's right, but it is what it is in today's society.
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