Should I be upset that I haven't heard from my boyfriend, since he's been on vacation?

[Twalmeida]

So my boyfriend went to Mexico with his mom to visit some family. I haven't tried to call him or text him because I really don't wanna bother him. We've been together for 2 years and have a baby on the way. But he hasn't checked up on me or let me know that he's okay. Even though I know he's okay, he was on Facebook reposting stuff. Should I be worried that he'll do something stupid? Or just let him be and trust him. Also I haven't been the best girlfriend to him bc of my hormones. I'm really mean to him & kinda needy now. But he should at least still text or call right?

Quit being dramatic

Dude fuck him, he's an asshole

[Jaye234]

He's with his Moma visiting family so they're busy cetching up and stuff, I'm sure all is ok. Plus with his Moma being with him she's a cock blocker in a way so he's fine. Don't worry too much, it's not good for the baby. When I was pregnant with my daughter I actually chased my husband outside with a butcher knife cause I asked him to tell his buddy to stop spitting his dip spit on my front porch my husband refused to tell him so I got super pissed and went off on him! Lol Hormones will make you cray cray! So don't over think this and relax!

[Jaye234]

Thanks for the MHO!!

[mooky06]

Well for starters he is on holiday.. But you're pregnant so he should check up at least once. You being kind of needy and mean to him is because the hormones from the pregnancy right? So I'm sure it's not intentional, and if your boyfriend has any logic, he's understand that. Just send him a message to say hi (what not) and be cool about it. It'll make the time when he gets back to you more worth the wait, I suppose

[Sheyhoney]

My boyfriend actually left to Poland a week ago for this world youth thing and I, like you, don't want to bother him bc I know he's busy and I want him to enjoy his vacation, but I occasionally text him to say I miss him and wishing him a good day, but he has not texted or called me either and I understand you haha I don't know if I am overreacting either but that has me a little down.- . But I understand you b ☺👌

[Jager66]

"We've been together for 2 years and have a baby on the way. "

And your ready to "Dude fuck him, he's an asshole" because he didn't call you while he was on family vacation? It's not your job to try an baby sit him.

WTF if wrong with you? Why are you having children? You know the rest of us have to live in the same world as the children you raise right?

[Twalmeida]

Shut the fuck up you fucking retard. NOBODY IS BABY SITTING HIM. And that's none of your god damn business anyways so don't even ask me why I'm having children stupid bitch.

[Twalmeida]

And you're fucking 36 why are you even on here? Get a fucking life and worry about yourself

[Twalmeida]

and I never said "dude fuck him he's an asshole" I wasn't even gonna say that? Problem w you is, that you're being an aggressive fuck. If I have my shit together like, oh I don't know maybe graduating from college and doing something w my life, then I could have as many babies as I want! Don't fucking worry about me and wondering why I'm pregnant. So yeah my kid is definitely gonna grow up right because both of his or hers parents are fucking successful at a young ass age. So wyd

[KittieCat]

@Jager66 She's going to be a mother. That's a tad bit scary

[Reallygottago]

Asker, preach.

[Jager66]

"and I never said "dude fuck him he's an asshole""

Yes you did, it's a poll option, miss big time college success story.. lol and to think you were calling me a retard.

"Don't fucking worry about me and wondering why I'm pregnant. So yeah my kid is definitely gonna grow up right because both of his or hers parents are fucking successful at a young ass age. So wyd"

Oh I'm not worried about you. I'm worried about your child and the people who have to share the world with you and your offspring.. that is some scary ass shit!

[Reallygottago]

She added that option to see how many people would say that. It's a POLL. She didn't say dude fuck him he's an asshole, use your brain.
Also, the world would be twice as good as it is now if you leave it and her children enter it. I'm quite sure that with such a great mind and heart she'll be an amazing mother, so fuck off and get a life. Maybe a real girlfriend for one! Wow!

[KittieCat]

@Reallygottago So she's gonna be a great mom because she's cussing her ass off, insulting someone for no reason, and believes her kid is gonna do fine because both parents are successful... A+ Mom material really.

[Reallygottago]

@KittieCat She's swearing her ass of to defend herself. It means she'll have the skills to defend her child. She's insulting him for a great reason, the fact that SOME PEOPLE think she's dumb and she shouldn't be having children, and that her children will turn out to be terrible people. And she thinks her kid will do fine because IF YOU HAVE DUMB PARENTS, THE KID WILL TURN OUT DUMB. THE KID can't EVEN ASK FOR HELP. However with SMART PARENTS, the kid has a lot of support in school and for other things and the parents KNOW HOW TO ACTUALLY PARENT.

[KittieCat]

@Reallygottago Swearing has nothing to do with defending yourself. You could speak in pig latin to defend yourself. There is zero need for profanity. And so someone thinks something bad of her? So what? Why entertain them? I could call her a whale because she's pregnant and it'd be stupid of her to insult me because she shouldn't pay me anytime anyways. And success doesn't always mean you're a genius. My dad's damn near a door knob and he was a VP and oracle. Money also does not mean a good childhood. Take me for example. My parents are millionares yet I raised myself and had a horrible childhood. Your money and intelligence can help, but raising a kid is another league of its own. That's social intelligence, care, nuturing, etc etc not book smarts and a pay check.

[Reallygottago]

@KittieCat Exactly, do you really think you know what her parenting skills are?

[KittieCat]

@Reallygottago Part of it. Social intelligence. She's screaming at someone online for no reason. It's immature and being mature is a huge part of raising and caring for a child. Not to mention I feel the "I'm successful so of course I'll be good" vibe.

[Jager66]

@Reallygottago Considering her lack of trust in the father of her children while he visits his family, and how unhinged she got at a random but honest opinion on the internet, yeah I think we have a pretty good idea how she will handle things when parenting isn't all cozy, fun, and easy, which is 99.999% of the time.

[KittieCat]

@Jager66 Yeah, it's unfortunate. Thanks for the back up

[Reallygottago]

@KittieCat Uhh what lack of trust? She's just asking why he hasn't called, jeez. And there's a big reason, you guys are insulting her and her future children BEFORE THEYRE EVEN BORN.

[madhatters4]

it would be good if he called although it is an international call which is pretty expensive. he's with family and his mother so i don't know what you would think he'd get into that isn't ok

why don't you just text him?

[rjroy3]

"I haven't tried to contact him".

If you don't even send a simple, "I hope you're having a good time : )" text so he's even aware you're thinking of him.. you're making a big deal over nothing. If you want to talk to him, then talk to him. Don't get upset that he hasn't initiated, because as you said he is visiting family.

[OleMissMiss]

Sounds like he's enjoying the time away from you if you've been mean to him lately.
Just take a breath and relax. Granted the father of your child should be checking up on you while he is away, but leaving that alone, knowing he is safe is good enough.
When he returns make the decision to treat him well instead of how you've treated him in the past. Don't blame it on hormones, that decision lies within you.

[FlutteringFeelings]

A guy can be in a different universe and if him purchasing a card so he can call you from the other side of earth just to hear your voice then he would. Someone who loves you will literally go an extra mile just to make sure you're okay and to be able to hear your voice.

[Tenseven]

Maybe he can't call or text from there. Why don't you write him a message on FB? You've been dating 2 years and have a kid on the way, there shouldn't be an apprehension to "bother" him or look "needy".

[Southernbelle22]

Sounds like he's not committed as you may think.. the fact that you're carrying his child should make him want to know you're OK and baby too... so if he hasn't checked up or checked in, he's Def up to too much fun and freedom in Mexico... I'm sure he will eventually call and act as if he's done nothing wrong and if you bring it up.. watch how he gets frustrated and lash out at you... Momma said.. A HIT DOG WILL JOLLA EVERY TIME.. it's true.. I know.. I've lived it just recently

[Stephbs2]

You know... Maybe he's upset that you haven't called him either. Stop whining and call him

[MissFabulous]

I think he should still check up on you but try & call him. :) How long as it been since he's talk you?

[ThisDudeHere]

Sometimes people just want to have some free time from communication. Even if that means they'll still go online.

[Sara413]

He's just enjoying his vacation and (probably) enjoying the break from his hormonal preggo girlfriend - let him have it!

[LifeEqualsLove]

Could be the baby hormones that's got you over thinking.

Don't make it what's its not.

[Anonymous]

If he doesn't have US & Mexico on his plan it's billed separately at international rates.
When I go to Mexico I get a text on my cell telling me the above.

[NotTheFBI]

Well he's with his Mom so don't sweat it... but I gotta wonder, did he vacation on the moon? If you see him posting stuff on Facebook message him there. :v

[MinjiC]

Text him, if he responds great, if not then you may have to wait until you see him again.

[NajemEddine]

if i took a vacation it would to break free from everyone including my girlfriend
and comback with a fresh blood

[John_Doesnt]

He should leave you for a Mexican girl. He deserves better.

[WhaChaChaKing]

It's pretty rude he's not contacting you but it doesn't mean he's doing something bad. He may just need a break.

[xbabyspice]

he's probably thinking the same about you. he's probably expecting you to text him. just text him or call him.

[Anonymous]

Leave him the fuck alone he's spending time with his family why don't you do the same and don't be mean to him that's probably why he's not contacting you

[Twalmeida]

I can't even take you serious with your anonymous bullshit. Crazy part is, is that i don't even bother him. So hop the fuck off you fucking faggot.
And leave me the fuck alone with your anonymous bulllshit Pussy fuck.

[Reallygottago]

She's not even being fuckin mean to him literally wtf is wrong with your logic

[Reallygottago]

He should be happy she's CARRYING HIS BABY even if it means hormones

[Anonymous]

Guys who go on vacation without you, are doing it to get away from you.

[Zinkr7]

How long was it? Call him? He could be sitting there asking the same exact thing.