Especially on here, it's like people think loud and boisterous people all must be confident, and shy quiet folk are always insecure.
So can shy people be confident? Because the thesaurus lists shy and insecure together lol
I like shy guys but insecurity kills me.
Perhaps I should be asking about introverts instead...
- Yes, you can be shy and confident60% (31)63% (37)61% (68)Vote
- Maybe, but it's uncommon19% (10)14% (8)16% (18)Vote
- Nope. Shyness and insecurity come together.21% (11)23% (14)23% (25)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I'm shy, but when I'm about to do business, work I'm confident and don't show shyness. So this is weird I was married for several years and that I'm a divorced single 31 year old I myself being l Shy with women, even just small talk and I'm also Shy doing certain things by myself.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm extroverted + shy + insecure Lol!
Is this possible? I don't know haha
Yeah I think you can be shy and confident2