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Should let it go, don't inform him don't act as though it bothers you let some time go by tell him when your birthday is and let him bring it up basically your bring him to a point where hell think wow that just went by that date I didn't get you a present so rather then accuse him of forgetting and hurting his feelings causing hurt for both of you you'll just be doing it in a way that's caring and loving reminding him in a settle way is way more healthier for both of you good luck to you guys! BTW if he doesn't take the qua from you I'd dump him no ones that unaware because then it would mean he isn't showing you love through his actions unless he's broke and can't afford a present to give you if that's the case don't try what I said it's then your decision do you want someone who can afford to provide for you!? At that point it's not about the present anymore but if you can deal with his lack of money don't know your complete situation so I'm assuming allot of different situations and scenarios!
Calm.. breath slowly.. exhale slowly..
lol.
You're not wrong here. Does sound to me like he built up the suspense without following through. Anyone would be like: "sup with that maaaaaaaaaan?"
You have every right to feel disappointment. What he did was just plain rude, mean even. A card and a few sentimental words can go a long way. I'm sure you just wanted to be shown how much he cares.
And boy did he ever accomplish that!
-Good luck with (mr.ninkumpoop)
i would talk to him after some weeks have passed but try to be causal and not nag
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Sounds like he is not really being grateful tbh. I don't think a card is necessary but some kind of a gift if you've been together for a while is expected. Most guys will start to do less things as the relationship goes on, imagine if you are together for 5 years or something... he probably wouldn't take you out to the hotel, maybe to dinner or something only
You should inform him of his failure. You should not pursue the case however.
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