Aite I hate these types of questions.. let's all be "real" here.. blame it on our social norms, or that we have been brainwashed to think this way because of how our media portrays men and women, but come on.. girls are such f'ing hypocrites.. I mean calling a guy "shallow" cause he is more attracted to a healthy, fit looking female is bullsh*t. So you're telling me if a tall, good looking, fit guy was walking down the street and his fat shorter buddy was walking along with him and they both had their shirts off you would check them both out equally? So none of you girls would think ewww that fat one should keep his shirt on, no one wants to see those dough rolls spewing out like that. PLEASEEE. The fact of the matter is, if you eat right, exercise and you're overall a healthy person, your body will reflect that. Fat girls and guys look the way they do because they are generally unhealthy, lazy, and over eat. Listen if you have bad genetics and do your best but can't keep the weight off, that is unfortunate and I feel for you. The media does portray beauty as the skinnier the better, but reality is you don't have to be model stick anorexic skinny for guys to be attracted to you, so stop blaming the freaking media, you're fat and guys don't want you because being fat usually, USUALLY is self inflicted, get off your ass, stop eating junk food every meal, and EXERCISE. Granted, if you are fat and view yourself as beautiful and love who you are in your own skin, that is wonderful and no one should judge you for that. BUT if you are one of those fat girls who can't get laid and it is because you are fat.. and you don't get why the majority of guys don't go for you. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, I have a friend who is like that and she has to cry every time she gets drunk and we're at a club cause she doesn't get attention from any guys. You know what? Her sister is stick skinny and has a banging body, don't blame genetics. Her sister is healthy, exercises and watches what she eats, guess who doesn't? I'm just being honest here, there is no phobia towards fat girls, some guys love them, most don't. If you're one of those fat girls that always bitch about how fat girls don't get enough love, please stop bitching and do something about it.