I am SO DAMN TIRED of reading the statuses of my friends who are single or have dated in the past and are like:
I hate relationships because they are drama
I date myself.
I am single because I am strong. (The worst!)
First of all, there is NOTHING wrong with being satisfied as single. In fact, you don't need another person to prove your worth or to complete you. Self esteem and love towards yourself are the major things we all should have. So, there is nothing wrong with being happy as a single in the ocean of in-relationship people.
BUT, it's wrong to put down people who are in relationship by saying that you are strong, that's why you are single. Being in a relationship require equal courage and strength as being single. In fact, more. Those who are in relationship DOES know how to enjoy on their own as well.
Moreover, why do some people try to prove that they are too cool to be in a relationship? Yes, being single gives you more freedom, but if you are in a LTR, it doesn't make you any less cool.
There are so many weird statuses like, "I date myself." Giving yourself love and care is the best thing you can do, but what's up with dating yourself? I have realized that this line is becoming another common bullshit after SWAG (Lol!)
Now, there are many people who are heart broken and they commit to never fall in love again as 'Love doesn't exist' but I see them confessing their 'love' to a new girl the very next day of their grand announcement of remaining single forever.
People need to understand that those who are single are not so because it's cool. It's just because they don't find the need to be in one. It doesn't make us any stronger than those who are in relationship, but it's just how we have chosen our lifestyle. Half of those who proclaim to love being single just jump into a relationship the very second they find one.
Moreover, it takes a very HUGE heartbreak to never fall in love again. Those people suffer even more, because they can't bring themselves to love other people, but at the same time, they know that 'love' does exist as they had experienced it. It's not an illusion. They try to convince themselves by saying that love doesn't exist, but at the same time, fall deeper into misery. Though they are so hurt that being single seem best option to them. But losing someone you love is never easy!
Now sometimes I feel like being single had become a coolness symbol now. Hating love has become coolness symbol now. Blame Teenagers! :D Every second person I meet is like this.
Me: So, do you have any bf/gf?
Them: I don't date. Too much drama relationships are. Love doesn't exist anyway.
Love is vanishing. Commitments are vanishing. Why? Because some people are adopting 'single lifestyle' just to be cool, but right after some years, they are planning to get married, and I am always like, "WHHHHAAATT??"
If you want to remain single, be it. But don't adopt this lifestyle because it's cool. At the end, you will suffer when you are lonely and realize that you did it all to be cool. Moreover, this over exploitation of the phrase, "I am single" by every high school and college student has now started depicting many of us as clowns who are genuinely into being single. If I take myself as an example, it's not because I don't believe in love or relationships, I genuinely do, but just because I am fine being single. I don't want to fit a relationship in my life plan. Though you never know. Life always does the most unpredicatable thing. But we shouldn't go around, putting on statuses on how cool our lifestyle is, just how you don't put a status of how cool your spongebob pyjama is. It fits you well, so it doesn't have to be a matter to flaunt.
Date when you are ready. Love when you are ready. At the end, your relationship status doesn't prove your worth. You are awesome in and out of a relationship. Stop putting down other people just 
I hate relationships/love because I am COOL! ;)
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When looking at what you wrote, What we are most likely seeing is someone who has more than likely gotten out of a bad relationship. What you are seeing is their anger. If they feel the need to bash couples because they are not single, Then it's because they are still dealing with the remains of what was.
Well, I'm a proud single but not like that.
I respect the people who are in relationship and I'm still cool.
Yes. That's how it should be. I am also single but I respect committed people.
Good :)
some people love you no matter what when they drunk or are dying.