I recently met a guy who I felt connected to immediately. Most of the time we spent together constited of sex, but we also talked and had some deep personal discussions. We constantly texted and facetimed and got to know each other well. He would always talk about his ex of almost 2 years and how he is still in love with her. Does that mean he just really trusted me? Why else would a guy always do that? He also would comment on how he doesn't want me getting attached to him, but at the same time would tell me how he has feelings for me and that he's getting attached to me. I decided to cut it off in order to protect myself from being hurt. I figured that if I let this continue I would develop even stronger feelings and that's not what he wants. When telling him this, he didn't say much at all and was very "disconnected." However when I said goodbye he looked sad and torn. Did I do the right thing by doing this? Do you think he was just using me for sex? I can't help but wonder if he is feeling sad like I am too.
Did I do the right thing by cutting him off, did he actually have feelings for me?
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