If you haven't seen your boyfriend in a month then that isn't a good thing. He should at least be taking the time out to see you at least once or twice a week I would say. I would try and talk to him if I were you. It doesn't even sound like he has time for you or is into you. If he wanted to be with you then you would have already been seeing. Him not seeing you in a month is just ridiculous. I would try and sit down and talk to him about taking the time out to see you more. And well if that doesn't work then I would probably consider cutting if off. It sounds like your relationship is drifting down hill and that isn't good. I get he is tired but tired or not tired him not seeing you in a month isn't right. Find someone who will take time out to see you and won't be so tired. If he really wanted to see you he would've done it by now.
Love conquers all - your love for him should be strong enough to overcome this hurdle. I really doubt he'll be able to manage such a demanding job for a long time. It's certainly not healthy. If you wanted this to work, you wouldn't be willing to quit so soon without discussing how you feel with him and suggest ways on how to improve your relationship and see each other more, even if that means he works 6 days a week instead of 7. Ask him if he wants to keep the relationship going because not seeing each other is causing problems. If he is unwilling to make a change or work less, so he can see you at least once a week and this is a huge problem for you, then you could make the decision to leave, at least you can say you tried.
You could try and talk to him about it. Say that you feel like he's not doing enough to make the relationship work. He says he's too tired, but if he really wanted to see you, he would do anything to see you.
You need to talk to him and ask him if he really wants this to work or not :)
That's a tough situation , It's not like he is cheeting on you , as far as we know. You need to do what is right for you. All those lonley nights you mightest well consider yourself single. Now if there is an end to his time away then stick it out but if there is not going to be now change the run move on.
Sounds like you need a guy you can see more often. If that's the case just tell him you can't sustain a relationship with so little contact. It's totally understandable.
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u "Love conquers all" only when both partners are motivated. If he hasn't found time in the past 30 days to see you, then it sounds like he really isn't very much into you. If you are the only one making an effort to keep the relationship alive, then it is doomed.
idc how tired or how much time i have taken out of my day i would find a way to see you if you were my girlfriend if i worked for 16 hours leaving only 8 hours to sleep commute eat shower etc. that 8 hours would be getting cut into for you any relationship needs to have effort from both parties if his amount of energy is already this low i wouldn't expect it to do anything but get worse babe cut your loses and move on remember to make you your top priorty and find someone who will make you theirs cause someone out there will
You want a relationship with a guy who is open to communication and shows you true love and for him to ghost you for a month is sad and if it was me I would move on.
Date someone who has time for you, that you could see a lot. A month is a long time.
Sounds like he is cheating on you. why would he work 7 days a week? he could be saying that because he is spending his time somewhere else besides work when he is off
m i haven't seen my boyfriend in 3 weeks
Why is he working 7 days a week?
Congratulations. You are a side chick.
How old is he?
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