If you ask a girl out and she says probably what does that mean?

[stevieG1234]

I got talking to someone I meet years ago while travelling and she said she would like to meet up its just a case of when and where. So I asked do you mean if I'm in your area and she just replied probably???? Am I thinking too much into this

[LonelyLillie13]

she doesn't like you, girls have a bad habit of being indirect to avoid hurt feelings, but if she or me was really into you she would say yes !

[stevieG1234]

Makes you think why start talking to me in that sense, better to avoid messaging me back in the first place but I suppose she was being nice. I just replied with we'll see and left it at that. Wasn't sure what to respond.

[LonelyLillie13]

trust me if she likes you you will never have to chase her.

[LonelyLillie13]

just be open with a lady, initiate conversation, a couple texts, invite her out, see if she bites but really i can't stress enough you never need to constantly be initiating conversations and always be the one does, just give it a try but not several, do you get what i mean?

[stevieG1234]

I did have a few doubts to be honest with you. Little things just didn't add up. Thinking of it most of the girls I have pulled have made it really easy for me as in if you ask them out and you stumble your words they finish off the sentence for you etc. I think I got a little too excited and ultimately disappointed. I will most probably ask her fir a drink when I'm there next for work no harm but that will be next year and a lot of things can happen until then. What do you think?

[Your_boss960]

You're not thinking too much into this, she can't just say probably to a date. You need to know, yes or no.

[jacquesvol]

IMHO it's bad news

[stevieG1234]

Makes you wonder why seem so keen. Would have been just as effective to say she had a partner.

[jacquesvol]

A girl with a kind personality doesn't want to say no brutally.
A bitch may want to keep you as a back up in case another guy gets enough of her.

[Anonymous]

It means she doesn't want to say NO to you.

[stevieG1234]

I can understand that bit think it would have been quicker and possibly more merciful to just say she had a partner when I originally asked but I suppose she is trying to be nice

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah that would be quicker but sometimes women feel bad to say no, trust me I have said that to men before because I felt bad to say no to them.

[Anonymous]

probably = no basically

;-)