Why do I always attract crazy women?

[Anonymous]

I see myself as a pretty average guy, looks and mentality. But for some reason, I always end up with women that are either outright dangerous or batshit crazy. I'm a normal, nice guy.. What the hell am I doing wrong?

Would love to get some tips, because I just don't get it. Am I being too nice? Should I really act like a douchebag so they don't just take advantage of me? The last four girls I have been with, (Over four years) have all hurt me so bad in different ways, and I'm sick of it. It's hard for me to try again, because I fear it will just be the same all over.

[Applefan1]

What type of women are you going for and where do you meet them because that makes a massive difference if you meet batshit crazy women or normal ones. If you go for the stunningly beautiful and hot ones then you are more likely to meet a crazy woman and also if you are trying to meet them at a place like a night club you are also more likely to meet a crazy woman.

[Asker]

If you read my comments below, the #3 girl I mentioned was the most beautiful I have and ever will be with. I knew her for two years before we started dating. Met her in school. She was 29 and I was 25. She has two kids and seemed like a really nice girl. Didn't take long to figure out something was wrong tho. I really miss that one. Before it all went to hell, she showed me a life that I really wanted to be a part of. Then everything was just taken away really fast.

I do go for the really beautiful women.. Im shallow.. I know.

[Applefan1]

The problem is the really beautiful women tend to have the worst personalises. I know this is not the case for all really beautiful women but it is the case for a lot of them. It is nature to go for attractive people and I do not consider that shallow at all but the ones that are not so hot often have better personalities.

[Anonymous]

There is a theory that says we end up dating people with a similar behavior of our mom or dad.

[Bards]

No, try again
No one deserves to be treated like shit because you've had bad experiences

[Klaatu51]

how do u define "crazy" then?

[Asker]

1. Would always make me feel so bad, even tho I didn't do anything. She would start a fight, even tho there werent any problems. She was so good at it that I always ended up feeling like the bad guy, even tho I didn't know what the hell the argument was about in the end. I once said something like "Noticed we haven't had an argument in two weeks now?" Big fucking mistake.. Next day she went totallt insane over absolutely nothing.

2. A few weeks after we started dating, she would call me up in the middle of the night, saying she would cut herself or take pills.. This went on for a while till I broke contact with her.

3. This one is by far the worst. She would call me in the middle of the night, drunk as hell, asking if I wanted to come over. The few times that I did come over, she was so drunk that I couldnt even understand her. When I finally got her talking, she told me she just wanted to see how I reacted.. Wtf.. In the end I met her ex that told me she was really bad news...

[Asker]

.. and that I should get away from her as fast as I could. He was warned himself, by her last ex. He didn't take it serious and he is just a broken man today, because she took everything away from him.

4. This one is really hardcore.. I still haven't managed to get rid of her. she's a nice girl and I feel really bad for her. But she's really nuts. doesn't do anything but sit infront of her computer all day. A while after I started dating her, she told me that she had been working as a webcam girl for about a year. Drunken parents and she can't even take care of her child.

There is much more to all of these stories. It's just a quick sum up of them.

[Klaatu51]

#4 sounds more normal than da rest... guess she needs those money