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I am having a hard time finding the logic to your thinking...
So you want him to cheat, so you can find out and break up.. Is this so can look like the victim in all of this? does this have anything to do with child custody issues? That is just really deceiving and cowardly.
Just have a talk with him and tell him your feelings for him have changed and that you want to break up. It's time to grow some balls woman!
The kids are going to be sad regardless, but they will at least learn a valuable lesson about maturity and ending a relationship in a civilized manner.
Now that is just wonderful.
Grow a spine! Dont treat him badly. U think that disonesty is the best he deserves from u after 8 years together?
Show some character. I get that it is hard, but either leave him or stay with him and make it work. This will only make u two resent each other in the end. And with lids in the middle its beat if u end it in the best terms possible. U will b seeing each other a lot.
You're hurting your children now. Trying to make your partner feel so alone and isolated that they feel the need to turn to another person is not a nice thing, it's cruel and selfish and cowardly. Of course, then you can take the moral high ground and say he was the bad person and leave him.
You are not being a very nice person. Your children deserve better behaviour than this.
Put on your big girl's pants and break up with him. You're not doing either of you a favor if you don't love him anymore and truly wish for him to cheat on you or do anything vile for you to have an excuse to break up with him. Stop playing games and start acting like an adult. Talk to him. As I said last time (you asked this question a couple days ago), just leave him or talk with him. You're hurting yourself, him, and the kids the longer you wait. You're NOT a bad person for wanting to leave. It's actually smart and the mature thing to do.
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Be a women and end it.
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You are a coward. Instead of being truthful you are just going to be passive-aggressive and withdraw from the relationship until he can't take it anymore. And why do you think dragging this out dishonestly will not hurt your kids? Is this how you want your children to behave? If you really can't stay in this marriage then tell him and file for divorce. Or are you imagining that you will get more of the assets if he cheats on you?
The kids are gonna be hurt one way or the other, but don't you think they'd actually be hurt worse thinking that mommy and daddy split up because daddy cheated?
So, you want to be hurt and destroyed by him, simply because you don't have the balls to tell him you're unhappy and then you can be the injured party, boohoo for you?
No love. Kids will get hurt. But this way they'll grow up thinking daddy is a wanker and mummy is a coward. Not really role models. Maybe mummy and daddy communicated and left on good terms and are both involved in their life and taught them not to be petty. Perhaps that's a better lesson?
But heck.
You have kids? Ok I get it now. You don't love him but you don't want your kids to hate you (they will) if you leave him and so you're trying to make him into a scapegoat.
Are you a child or an adult?
Just show him this question and he will want to leave immediately. Heh.
You have to be honest and leave him if you've really thought this through. Children will be affected either way... unhappy parents if you stay with him and parents apart. At least when apart you can each find your own happiness and work as a team to make your children's lives easier.
How shitty. Just tell him you don't want to be with him anymore. Please don't play games, the world doesn't need any more shitty people.
Sounds like it might just be better to suck it up and tell him how you feel. It will save a lot of problems in the future. If you can't do it face to face. try writing it down in a letter and giving it to him.
Uhh just break up with him it's gonna be worse if you just wait. Don't waste his time and have him labeled a cheater
That's really big of you. Trying to put the blame on him for the break up. Just tell him that you want out and be honest about it don't go trying to justify your actions by sneak
That is not a right thing to do. You are being selfish
Just break up and get it over with.
You sound kind of manipulative... you should tell him what you are feeling and why you want to leave. He is a human after all...
So do I I know how you feel I want him to cheat so I can get away
What if he's a dirtbag too... he cheats... and you never find about it?
You're a horrible person lol you know that
just leave him, don't go down the coward route
What did I just read...
what did i just read? :O!!
just tell him
... if he loves you he won't soooo.
WTF kind of question...
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