So... tell him you're not going to take him around friends if that's the way he's going to present himself. Also, looking like crap is only going to serve to feed into his depression. I get that it's a result of it, but it also fosters it. It sounds like you've put up with a lot from him already, time to put your foot down. No more feeling sorry for himself and he can take care of himself for you if he's unwilling to do it for himself.
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Make him know that he's ruining his life. Nothing is worth that. I don't care if his parents died or his favorite TV show is off the air. Let him know how u feel. Bring around his family or friends to help.
How you think matters. Tell him honestly and politely. If he doesn't change, then you need to break up. You are a human being too. You deserve the right to speak your mid without feeling guilty. You have no need to feel guilty. Enough is enough.
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Try suggesting showering together? Buy him clothes to suggest to him he wears them for you
He doesn't tell you what to do, so, why should you?
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