How long does a girl will stay upset with a guy?

[Anonymous]

how long will it be?

[ShesMygirl]

F O R E V E R lol

Look...there are going to be a lot of times when you THINK you know what she's mad about. Often it's going to only be a small part of it.

Women make lists...sorry ladies...not trying to ruffle feathers, but it's true.

When guys are mad we can get over it and move on. How many time have you gotten into a fight with a friend? We fight it out, and are back to beer and a ballgame in very little time.

Women feud. I know some who are still enraged over things that happened in school...20 years ago.

The difference is women invest in life at a deeper emotional level than men do, so when their hurt it has a much bigger impact.

If the two of you have been together a long time, and you don't want to lose her...well you need to talk.

Let her know you're trying to understand. Let her know you really do care about her...the proof is that you're trying to work things out. Don't play the dumb guy card...be honest. The more real you are, the better chance you have.

Don't let yourself get frustrated, or upset...yeah I know, it can be a tall order at times, but if you're calm, she'll be more apt to open up.

If you screwed up, try asking her what you can do to make it right. After she stops describing what your head on a pike looks like, you might get an answer that requires less blood letting.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl. I know some who will stay mad forever. All I ever did was cheat on her on our wedding day with her sister. Some people have no forgivness at all.

[blaaaahhh]

it depends what you did, but you can definitely speed up the process by apologising, making it up to her, being extra nice, going out of your way to please her ... etc etc :)

[lostxinxlove]

untill he goes out of his way to make it up to her, or untill she figures out that he isn't going to do that and she doesn't want ot lose him

[Anonymous]

She'll hold it over your head as long as it benefits her.

[Somethingstrange]

It depends on what the guy have done. :)?