My ex took advantage of me all the time. Took advantage of my new truck (better on gas than his truck), the fact that I had a steady full time job (he went 6 weeks without a job and expected me to pay for everything), and trust me, it isn't fun. Nor was I impressed when he argued that I was taking advantage of him. For what? He didn't pay for anything, he didn't drive anywhere, and he was unemployed for 1/4 of the time we were together! I've had the same job for almost 2 years now, and he hasn't had a steady full time job in 3 years, and that's my fault? Oh, and then there was him being embarrassed or ashamed of me. He didn't want to go out in our town because of whatever reason. I never met his family or his friends (his best friend lived upstairs from him). How was I supposed to feel? But, back to your original question, I have been taken advantage of, but I don't feel that I have taken advantage of any guy I've dated.
I think pretty much any girl who's dated has been taken advantage of at one time or another. The first guy I had sex with did it to me. He told me he loved me and I though I loved him and then the next thing I knew we were having sex and he was pounding me as hard as he could. I begged him to stop and to slow down, but he didn't care and just kept doing it. It felt like his penis was as big as a baseball bat, and he just kept pounding away inside of me. At some point I realized that he wanted to hurt me, that it turned him on or something and that's why he wouldn't stop. God, what a jerk. He didn't care about me at all. It didn't take me very long at all to realize that I didn't love him and to move on. That's all you really can do. I moved on and had much better sex with much better guys. I got over it and I'm okay now.
I'm a guy who has been taken advantage by a girl because I was too sweet. Once she figured out she could get me to do pretty much anything, she took that and used it to her advantage. It took me a while to figure this out. Once discovered, I stepped back from the situation and decided things should end. Figuring out that you are being taken advantage of is difficult, but doing something about it is even harder.
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