Girls, Would you ever take advantage of a guy while dating him that didn’t have good social skills?

[Anonymous]

So this was late 2020 in December I was always very awkward in my approaches to talk we happened to work together but I was extremely nervous I had never dated or been in a relationship. Her sister thought I was creepy and weird. I finally admit to liking her so we start dating and a few weeks in I admit to being on the autism spectrum asking her if that made her uncomfortable basically an early exit I didn’t think it was right to not disclose. She said it was fine so I bought material for her to better understand me and my disability she never touched the books they constantly were buried away and collected dust. One of my co diagnosis with this is ocd she would constantly make fun or mock my anxiety. I wasn’t ever allowed to be anxious about doing something cause if I was it was making an excuse and she would have a temper tantrum she constantly let me know how I would frequently disappoint her. Our communication constantly was bad because she never wanted to sit down and talk about issues she said they triggered her and more often then not we argued over small things or things related to my autism. Each time there was an argument she would hold a threat of breaking up over my head. She would hit me if I was slow to react to something, she also hit me cause she was losing in a video game. She would call me nuisance, bitch and all other horrible names. She did the same to our dog she would beat on him and slammed him on his crate he would constantly yelp in pain from her abuse. We had consigned a car that she created another argument from because it was supposed to be shared but she assumed full control over it and made it seem as if I was being irrational. She didn’t care that the dog’s behavior would get worse he would constantly poop and pee all over the carpet and when I would try to crate him while being gone she would have a meltdown in front of her friends saying that I’m intentionally trying to her her evicted.

[_Maya_]

I'm just going to answer the question you asked regardless of the details under it. No I wouldn't take advantage of someone I was dating for any reason. As it relates to social skills I probably wouldn't be with him in the first place and therefore this scenario would never happen. I'm outgoing and very sociable. I wouldn't date someone that wasn't similar to me as far as social skills go because that would be a horrible match for my personality. I like to go out with friends and have an active social life. Someone that can't fit in would honestly be someone that I could not be with in a relationship.