Have any girls ever physically hurt a guy when they've annoyed you?...
What did you do?...
And did you regret it or feel guilty afterward?
Me and my ex were play fighting in the room.. She was laughing and I was smiling.. She was still laughing and said: "Stop stop, you're hurting me" without that assertive tone.. So I kept playing around.. Then I realized it wasn't fun and games anymore, that she was actually hurting - so I stopped and immediately threw my hands up the air with the expression like "i'm sorry oh sh*t I didn't realize!".. Then WHAM... followed up by BAM!.. She socked me two good ones right to the jaw.. Instantly I pointed at her with both hands - said: "We're through" and left the room.. She chased me out the house, I got in my car, she kept trying to talk to me, and I left.
Regardless of age, it will p*ss a guy off if you hit him in the face..
Let's face it, sometimes guys don't understand that they are hurting you (speaking to women here).. So in turn you have to show him your hurting.. The easiest way to scare the sh*t out of him, without getting anything but affection in return, is to use a very assertive voice: "(name) back off." .. If he doesn't listen to you and get the f*** out of your way, he knows he's gonna listen about it later.. You're not cussing or calling him names, you're tell him- "get off me".
I think that would have struck more fear in me than anger; especially compared to this situation. When a girl is physically playfighting me (or when I do something completely absurd like drooling over a girls ass) I'll presume I have it coming to get hit.. That's why I leave, it's not because I am upset she hit me or that I'm breaking up with her - it's that I don't want to let things escalate to where I DO break up with her, out of pure rage.
Moral of the story - if something is bothering you, you have to show him and say something.. Don't just "ouch, stop".. Be like: "Listen (name) you're hurting me, back off"... If he doesn't get the tip and this keeps happening - move on, there's no sense letting yourself stay in a situation that could escalate in to domestic abuse, ever.
~ ArtistBBoy
All these ballbusters mentioned in comments here should have been sued in small claims court and had restraining orders taken out against them. Or their parents needed to inflict major discipline. They're all so ignorant.
So many chicks have that weird arrogance when it comes to initiating violence. Where does the sense of entitlement come from? The laws of assault and battery don't have exemptions for female attackers.
There is risk of permanent injury, not just pain.
The only legal motives for a genital attack: Self-defense when escape is unsafe or impractical.
Illegal motives for a genital attack include all of the following:
punish guys when you dislike their words (independent of how mean, degrading, or distressing the words are)
amusement at the reaction (victims' facial expressions and words)
wanting to disprove stereotypes about male toughness and female weakness
misandry (hatred of men)
sadism (laughing at the hurt)
ignorance or misunderstanding (thinking the laws of assault and battery don't apply when females hit males)
seeking a power trip (girls allegedly are too weak to hurt men, so it's a special opportunity)
sexual infidelity
Seriously, victims should get aggressive and creative about punishing this nonsense.
yes
One time at work, ( I'm a waitress) this guy kept hanging around the bar where I make the drinks at and he kept hitting on me, I made it very clear I didn't want anything to do with him but that just seemed to p*ss him off
well when I walked by him he slapped my ass so I turned around and told him "if you touch me again I'm going to punch you in the face".
I called security but no one came so for like an hour he was still there.
Well he continued to be a tool and when I was coming back behind the bar again he grabbed me by my hair and I mean really hard and told me I liked that or some sh*t so I punched him in the face as hard as I could. He started freaking out calling me a bitch and one of the male customers got up and came over there.
I would never put my hands on somebody unless they did it to me in a aggressive manner first.
I'm usually laid back and it takes a lot to make me mad but the sh*t he was doing was really uncalled for and to this day I don't feel guilty and I doubt I ever will
When he pulled your hair, you should have turned round and just ran up and kicked him in the balls as hard as you possibly could! lol He wouldn't have been able to call you a bitch then because he would have been to busy rolling around on the floor in agony! lol Or you could have put your hands on his shoulders and kneed him really hard!... I doubt he would have bothered you again afer that! lol Have you ever done that to a guy before?... lol
lol no but I will take notes for the next time, hopefully it won't happen again
lol Well it's good that you've never been in a situation where you've had to do that to a guy before, but it's definitely the best way to deal with a guy if he's annoying or harassing you! lol One swift knee or kick to hiss balls and he'll be in so much agony he won't bother you again, I'm sure! lol Thanks for your reply to my question though!... :o)
Yes I have done this in some occasions but it has been the same guy. So we were in class and he sat behind me and he was pulling on my hair and he wouldn't so I used my history book to hit him on the head and I'm in high school so this guy just lives annoying me. Then in another occasion he was punching my thigh and again he wouldn't stop so I staved my nails into his wrist and he know has a scar and the third time he was giving me an Indian burn and he's strong so I couldn't get away and I told him to let go and he wouldn't so I bit his arm and I didn't let go until he let go of me so he know has a scar that has faided with time and he learned his leason don't f*^k with me cause I will get payback b*%#h and NO I did not feel bad cause I had goo enough reasons to hit him. And I'm not the type of girl that will let a guy hit me or treat me wrong cause I will get them back one way or another :)
Nah to be honest I`m actually a wimp but once I was in college and there was this guy who used to love teasing me in any way he couldand he knows quickly I get annoyed so he hit me on the head with a rolled up paper and I returned the favour
Its not a good idea to hit uys imo since they are physically stronger than us
I have playfully punched a few guys on the arm before but they were joking around with me too so it was no biggie...just a couple of teens goofing around
I`ve played Martial Arts and kick boxing with my brothers before but nah I wouldn`t say I actually hurt them but anyways they wanted to spar so I don`t feel guilty in the slightest
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Me and my ex were fighting while we were drinking. I looked through his phone (which I know is shady) and he had been talking to his ex calling her baby, telling her he still loved her etc. It ended up in this extremely heated argument and I swung on him multiple times. I can't honestly say I feel guilty because he was going behind my back, and I later found out he was cheating on me with her...
Sounds to me like the end justified the means and although you looked through his phone, you found out exactly what you needed to know... You should have kicked or kneed him in the balls as hard as you could for doing that to you! lol
if it's a guy hitting than it's abuse and HOW? WHY? FEMINISTS & WOMEN'S RIGHTS! well guess what hitting is abusive from both genders so no matter what happens, hitting should not be included unless he was causing a threat to you, but if you just hits a guy for a silly thing & he let's you go than he's a total pimp and ain't no man...he better bury himself...and if it was with me...be sure I will hit with a ruthless way a lot more than a guy cause your a girl and just the saying that your a girl and must not be hit will push me to the extreme that you will beg me to stop, you better not fall in the hands of the wrong guy...you want equality, THERE'S YOU EQUALITY >>brutally smacked like a guy<<
You are disgusting and would be arrested for bodily harm and burn in hell. It explicitly says in the bible - in LAW - not to do that.
good thing you did, some people are just becoming so stupid and without any manors or disciplines...
If a girl hits me and it doesn't hurt or do any physical damage to me, then I won't have a problem. Also I don't do anything to get hit. If a woman came at me trying to hit me with a baseball bat, and actually get a few blows. I'm going to punch her square in the face. A girl should NEVER hit a guy in the balls, and a guy should NEVER hit a girl in the stomach. Really neither gender should hit either gender. But in extreme cases when one needs to protect themselves from the other using self-defense, then hitting in the face, the inside of the knee caps. and other place will do fine.
Never a boyfriend, but there was this one d*** who just kept picking on me, commenting on everything I did and calling me stupid. He pushed me over the edge and I saw red and just started pummelling him in the middle of the supermarket (though I am a weakling and he said it didn't hurt).
The same guy kept grabbing my ass/boobs, I told him to stop and he just said he couldn't, so it got to the point where every time he did it I hit him in the crotch (not too hard). He told me to stop because it hurt, I told him that maybe he should learn not to molest me. Problem solved.
lol Yeah, there's no doubt a kick or knee in the balls is the best way to hurt a guy if he's annoyed you or hurt you in some way! lol I reckon if some guy was grabbing my butt and breasts, I'd kick or knee him quite hard in the balls actually! lol Have you ever been in a position where you've had to do that to a guy as hard as you can?... Or have you ever seen a guy get hit there really hard? lol...
me and some dude friends were hangin out with these chicks and he said "i got balls of steel." she said "Really?" she walked over and kicked him in then nuts HARD, down goes frazier...moral of the story yes nut shots hurt don't do it just for fun but if a guy is molesting you by all means
Yup, if a guy is harrassing a girl to her limit, the best way to get him to back off is to kick him between the legs.
I was in a theater with an ex and an old ad for a movie with Bridget Bardot showed up and I said casually "She was really beautiful." About five seconds later, my girlfriend swung around with her fist and punched me straight in the testicles as hard as she could. I could not believe she did that...and I could not believe the pain...wow. I walked out of the theater and waited for her at the car. She was acting like I overreacted and I just drove her home. She had been drinking earlier in the night and I already knew she had a drinking problem. After 3 weeks I finally started replying to her texts and voicemails and told her I wouldn't see her again unless she got sober. She stayed sober for 3 weeks and then we dated for another few months but I ended up leaving her anyway because I just didn't really love her anymore.
I had a girl slap me cause my pal sent me a picture of his girlfriend, I didn't ask for it. He just sent it She said " do you want me to look like that? Do you not love me anymore?!" then bam slapped me. I wanted to break up with her for it. How immature was that!
Hitting is never okay, ever.
I think its funny now that I look back on it tho haha. Classic girl gets jealous scenario.
I hate to admit it but I have hit my boyfriend many times when he pissed me off. It was always jealousy issues where he would act like a total jerk when we would go out with friends and treat me like crap. I regret it because it destroyed our relationship and caused a lot of personal pain. Hate myself for it. I would slap his face, scratch him across the face, try to shove him. I'm a tiny girl and he's a bodybuilder so I never saw in my eyes that I was actually hurting him, but it was extremely wrong and I hope no one else acts like this. It's abusive and yes, I know it's wrong.
I once kicked a bully between the legs because he was harshly picking on me. He never picked on me again aftr that :D
Ooh! That must have really hurt him! lol I guess that was at school then?... Did you do it as hard as you could?... And did you feel any guilt or concern for him if he was like on the floor right in front of you in agony?...
Yes, this was in high school. I didn't do it gently, but it wasn't as hard as I could. I just basically snapped & before I could stop myself, I was kicking some guy where it hurts the most.
Well good on you for showing him that you won't be bullied and obviously it worked!... I'm sure he was in a hell of a lot of pain for a while! lol
U could have made him infertile or caused other severe health problems...was it really worth ending the teasing? Women have a wapred view of jusctice...guys say something rude..they deserve the worst physical pain...women never do wrong and there is "no excuse" to hit a woman right? O and I'm guessing you think lorena bobbit was a hero too..I guess having the Y chromosome makes us more reasonable...itd explain alot.
Hey, any guy who picks on a girl is a pussy. That guy only picked on me because he too afraid to pick on someone his own size. He picked on a lot of "weaker" people, Karma caught up with him. I don't go around kicking guys in the balls normally, I'm well aware you could make a guy infertile by doing so. But guess what, if a guy doesn't want to get hurt, maybe he shouldn't go around picking on the "weaker" students to feel like a man. I don't regret what I did, & he knew he had it coming.
I've socked a few dudes in my lifetime. They DESERVED it, as far as I'm concerned.
The karma of it all is ironic, however. I was arrested for battery when I actually didn't hit 'em in that instance... he freaking hit ME!
Anyway. I don't AT ALL go around hitting people. It's mostly uncalled for, but I am confident when anybody, not just dudes, need a good reality check.
I was with some friends after work for a few drinks and this guy that none of us knew got in our face and would'nt go away. At some point I punched him in the face. He just backed away then and some other guys came over and got him the hell out of the place. I don't regret it, but got scolded from the guys as they said what if he had of punched back.
I remember once my ex and I were having an argument over something I had done and she threw a plate at my head. I managed to dodge it but it made me so mad that I just left and went for a walk to cool down. In all honesty, beyond that, I've never been physically hurt by a woman. (Unless I asked nicely *grin* )
The only time physical violence is acceptable in my eyes is if the guy's been unfaithful, in which case pretty much anything is fair game. It really pisses off when guys stand for that sh*t and take it from their girlfriends. If a guy does it to another guy, they have a little freak out, kick the sh*t out of each other and it's all good. When a woman does it to a guy it's just f***ing stupid, because she knows he's not going to hit her back.
i agree real talk
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dont agree, guys hit girls all the time for no reason at college. so your point is a load of balls :)
I actually have slapped a guy before and I do not regret it because he was raising his arm at me, which made me suddenly go into a defense mode. We were arguing like no other and he was my boyfriend of 2 years.
Needless to say, not dating him anymore!
he dumped you didn't he
Haha, wrong. We stayed together for 4 more months after that. Then, he cheated on me and earned himself another slap across the face, and also a new single life on top of that. I still receive texts and calls from him, claiming he wants me back.
A guy friend was teasing me in a way that made me uncomfortable, and he wouldn't stop. which almost made me cry. So I dug my long nails the new tattoo he'd gotten on his arm to make him stop. I didn't regret it. And the day after he apologized for what he had done.
I have also bitten my current boyfriend on the shoulder quite hard once, when we had just started dating. He was being to pushy about moving our relationship up a level. So I bit him hard so he'd stop. I have not regretted it.
I've slapped and sorta punched my guys friends on the arms, but the punches never hurt them. Of course, I would never really punch them for real if I could either...
They were being stupid or said things that pissed me off. I tend to hit them sometimes when I'm playing around or because of what I said above.
I tend to punch people when they annoy me. But not to hurt them. It's always just a playful jab.
The only time I can think of that I actually physically hurt a guy was when my Boyfriend started tickling me and I accidently elbowed him in the face, ahahaha. I felt bad about it and was relieved to see I hadn't hurt him badly. I don't think I could ever deliberately do something like that to someone.
A couple of weeks back me and my friends were in a club, and I went outside to get some air cause the place was boiling, and these two guys came out and they were like touching my ass and my breasts and trying to get my clothes off and stuff, I got really scared and I didn't know what to do but I slapped one across the face and he looked so shocked I had time to get away. I'm now thinking back, was I like assaulting him? I shouldn't have hit him, at least not that soon
To be honest I think you did just the right thing!... These guys were touching your ass and groping your breasts, so who knows what plans they had for you? I think you did the right thing in slapping one of them and getting away quickly! If that ever happens to you again, the best thing to do is to kick or knee him in the balls as hard as you possibly can (he'll fall to the floor in agony) then you can just walk away!... Have you ever done that to a guy before? lol
no, I don't really like hurting people but I was really scared so it just kinda happened
Ok, well what they did was VERY wrong and no wonder it scared you... They were lucky to get away with a slap! Next time, do what I said and make sure you do it as hard as you can... Then get away!...
you did the right thing!
actually, you should have sacked them :)
I kicked a guy in the balls, then slapped him because he was trying to get his hands under my shirt once... He never approached me again.
Ooh! You kicked him in the balls!... lol That must have been painful for him! lol Did you kick him or knee him?... And did you do it as hard as you could, or just enough to get him off you? lol Thank you... :o)
I kicked him lol, and yeah I did the hardest I could... He nearly fell down on his knees! xD
lol I think he did well to only 'nearly' fall down on his knees if you kicked him as hard as you could! lol That'll teach him to go around groping women... He would probably have been all aroused doing that to you and then you kick him down there!... lol Did you feel any guilt or concern for him after you did it?... lol
Actually, no. I was mad. I didn't give a damn.
No. When some idiot makes obvious indication that he wants to grope me, I don't play nice. He had it coming.
Can I just ask you a couple more things lol... Did this happen on a night out? Was it a random guy, or someone you knew? And did he fall to the floor in like real agony, or was he able to stay on his feet? lol ... :o)
It was a guy I knew from school. No, we weren't going out or anything but he had this habit of constantly flirting with me. He took it too far that time.
And, yes, he was able to stay on his feet.
Ok... Well good for you and thank you for your replies... :o)
Yeah, I've been slapped by a girl before...
but then I kicked her and broke her spine, so I guess I was 30-1 after that one.
i was in a realationship with a girl that like to hurt me she got off on it but guess what,so did I :) she liked to go out on me to but I liiked that also,it is such a turn on for me to be abuse/hurt by a cute girl I swear,i know strange but very true.only really cute girls can get by with that though
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