There is so much that I don't understand about the way guys think. I'm far from conceited but why don't guys want to fall in love with the pretty girl? I get compliments all the time from guys.. all on my looks. They always ask why I'm single.. I just want to say "I"M SINGLE BECAUSE ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS HAVE SEX ME" guys really don't give a @#!*% about anything else. why is that? why do they take so much time to PRETEND to care about you? why do I fall for it every time? why can't a pretty girl find someone who loves her for her. and not her looks?
BTW, I have a good personality,.. I just don't understand why guys ignore it!
omg same f***ing here! I feel like a piece of meat and used! I always think okay this guy really likes me but then nope. My last guy was obsessed with my looks, body, everything outer than inner. But he never would compliment me personality wise...like he would say I am cute but I was pretty easy to forget about. I don't know how to find someone that will treat me like a legit person.
Maybe your problem isn't with them but with you...lay off the clinique and the tight "form fitting" clothes or the revealing skirts or v-necks...stop using makeup altogether. And maybe next time you speak take a stand on intellectual points. Start to SHOW that they should have something else to be attracted to, and they will be. Ill tell you I have dated some of the most beautiful women in the world, one was tenth place for Miss China...looks will only get you in the door...its not good enough...sure I might let a girl get with me if she were beautiful...but if she has no personality or compatibility...i don't care HOW pretty she is...i'll leave her and find someone who I can talk to and have a real relationship with. So if guys keep flirting...and then...just walking away...well...the problem isn't them. You need to look at what YOU talk about...how many times in your question DID YOU bring up your looks? Geez...its like your central pre-occupation...and really...pretty or not...that sh*twould get annoying quick.
From look at how you look, you won't find it.EVER.
Your a pretty girl that means all the Good guys who would treat you right, you are not interested in them.And even if you find one, you will most likely screw them over for someone else due to the fact you have a line of men wanting to hook. You will ditch the good guy if you even got that far to give him a chance for an a**hole. And will continue the cycle hurting one guy after another as well as yourself because your too dumb to realize it.You will log onto websites and ask why is life so unfair because you can't find a man because you have so many to choose from. And once your in your late 20s or 30s and your looks fade you will make up the excuse that you needed to "grow" up to hide the fact that you were just selfish because so many woman wanted to be the the guys that you turned into jerks by hurting them.
You will find some guy who has everything and magically be happy while most of us are miserable because its so hard being attractive in a world based on looks.
- Come back to this page when you get married and you will be like " holy sh*t he was right the whole time!"
because its so easy to act when you want it so desperatly. first of all a man likes a girl with his head, loves a girl with his heart, and lusts a girl with his d***. you are the object of lust, sorry to tell you but from your profile picture you don't look like girlfriend material. I'm giving my personal opinion but I like a gorl that's small and innocent looking no offense but you look like your from jersy and ill admit your pretty hot ... (that was my d*** talking by the way). plus by the way the fact thst you said you have a good personality almost made me cry, you can't have a good persnality, you probably have no perso ality because you are and high school and are still figurung out who you are plus uve been played with by sme guys and are trying to figure out how t act in front of them. you got to be u. if your a stuvk up bitvh then be that bitch and someone will like u. I've seen a lot of feminine guys with a lot of tough women... anyways just stop tryin to have a good personaloty and try to meet someone you actually like
The fact that you emphasize so much on your own prettiness is exactly why it seems you're asking for just sex. The moment you stop giving a f**k about your looks and come across as a natural, guys will show you more respect. And then, only the guy who really thinks he'll be able to commit a long relationship with you will ask you out.
The trick is to not getting carried away with guys boasting your prettiness. Without being bi*chy, saying a thank you is enough. I think only time will make this thing go away.
Because pretty women are a trophy to be won and lost, (or thrown away when it's no longer useful). Sometimes guys are even intimidated by gorgeous women. They doubt themselves and their confidence drops along with the woman's interest. Try looking for the guy who you only catch glancing at you. They will be much more devoted to you if you can give them the chance. Make a move yourself, this is the 21st century. Women want equality, but don't want the rejection that comes with it. Well guess what, neither do the men. I'm willing to bet that if you give a guy that you think watches you a lot but always looks away when you turn to look at him a chance, you'll like what you'll find.
Hey girl, stop looking. The minute you do is when they come. Yea, a lot of guys just want sex but at least your not like most girls and won't settle for that. Based on what you say, you have a lot of admirers. Plus if you keep assuming that all guys are the same, you end up being close minded. Just do you, and let them admire you. Focus on you, your friends and your life. TRUST me there are good guys out there, sometimes it just takes time for them to come out. =)