My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month now. A few weeks ago he got his friend (or probably himself) to send me a message asking me out on MySpace to see if I would cheat on him. At the time I answered, I told the 'friend' that I wasn't interested and that I had a man. The next day my boyfriend says 'good answer' and he admitted to me what he did.
Now I have done the same thing, I got one of my most attractive friends I had to send him a message on MySpace to see if he would cheat on me. He hadn't responded. But for the past week I've been mad at him because he only sent me a text message on my birthday instead of calling. I told him I was upset about it and gave him the silent treatment and he got mad and hung up the phone (this was Saturday night). About an hour later my friend tells me that my boyfriend responded to her message asking for her phone number unbeknown to him it was my friend.
I was pissed off, so I called and woke him up telling him what was going on and how pissed I was he would ask a woman for a number. He admitted that he did it because I had been acting funny and he thought I didn't want to be with him and that is why. I told him every time we have problems or I get mad it doesn't mean I don't want him and for him not to go running to other women when we have problems. He apologized and every since then things have been going great like they used to in the beginning. I don't know if it is because of guilt or if he fears losing me.
My question is should I give him another chance? I really like him a lot and he is a really great guy. It seems like he learned his lesson, but I'm afraid that if we have problems again he is going to stray. What should I do?
Now I have done the same thing, I got one of my most attractive friends I had to send him a message on MySpace to see if he would cheat on me. He hadn't responded. But for the past week I've been mad at him because he only sent me a text message on my birthday instead of calling. I told him I was upset about it and gave him the silent treatment and he got mad and hung up the phone (this was Saturday night). About an hour later my friend tells me that my boyfriend responded to her message asking for her phone number unbeknown to him it was my friend.
I was pissed off, so I called and woke him up telling him what was going on and how pissed I was he would ask a woman for a number. He admitted that he did it because I had been acting funny and he thought I didn't want to be with him and that is why. I told him every time we have problems or I get mad it doesn't mean I don't want him and for him not to go running to other women when we have problems. He apologized and every since then things have been going great like they used to in the beginning. I don't know if it is because of guilt or if he fears losing me.
My question is should I give him another chance? I really like him a lot and he is a really great guy. It seems like he learned his lesson, but I'm afraid that if we have problems again he is going to stray. What should I do?
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