Sad. You have the right to call text or anything else to contact him. If he answers the call is the question. you'll know when you try. However he needs time too. Time to process this tragic event. The death of a family member is always hard and takes time and energy. Physically and mentally a heavy challange.
He does need some support. But at this very moment he needs to be with family only. Dont tey too hard to contact him.
Try to imagine how it feels like if your sis brother dad or mum lost a battle against cancer...
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His world is in meltdown right now. It is appropriate for you to be "in the corner" right now while he's grieving with his family so expect nothing from him for now. Yes, go to the viewing just to be present. . . same with the funeral.
I know it feels like rejection, but it's only temporary. When he begins to get over the devastation he'll come back to you because you will represent to him someone beautiful and stable, supportive and encouraging who can help him continue on.
You need to give him space and time to properly grieve the loss of his sister. He isn't intentionally making you feel this way. When he begins to come to terms with the loss he will come back to you. You should go to the viewing and the funeral; he will appreciate it greatly in the long run.
That's my cousin right now. He's completely zoned out since his girlfriend is dying. Just give him space you should go so he doesn't get mad if you don't/didn't show but just be there as much as you can but it's probably the fact that he wasn't there that's bothering him the most.
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Not sure how to answer, but I'm sorry for your/his loss and I hope you both overcome this and become as strong as you were before. Just give him time, time can work wonders.
Sometimes, there are no words, but to be there and quietly mourn with him may be the form of comfort he needs. Just being there for him may help; do not actions speak volumes more than words?
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