I have everything I need but I am still sad...

[Anonymous]

I have everything I need in life. Intelligence, beauty, health, money...when you look from the outside, everything seems perfect in my life but when you see inside of me, its completely different



I am a very shy girl. I wasn't like that. I was always the girl who made everyone else laugh and everyone wanted to be friends with me. But since my brother has cancer (7years ago, he was only 27 years young, and it was a shock for the family) I am different. I became such an introverted person. And on Christmas '10 my sister had a car accident and almost died ( she has now problems with her brain). And my mother had cancer too, it was a tough time too. :(

I am so shy. I can't meet new people abd make friend Because I don't trust anyone. I never had a boyfriend and I am so afraid I am gonna end up alone in live. And that nobody loves me. I am so sad. I think a lot about commiting suicidevuz my life is getting worse and worse...

[Mortalgod21hfzelvqr]

Geez that's really bad.

well, what I can say:

Please just join a sport you like, it's a very good way to mkae new people.

Then: try to get a little closer to those people.

Then: you don't need a lot of people, but surely you'll know some people who will know other people who like dancing? For instance some of your family members?

And let them take their friends with them then, you'll probably get enough people for a nice evening.

If you don't dare to dance or think you cannot dance that's nonsense.

Something as a feeling for this does really not exist, you only have to do your thing out there, and the more relaxes you are/get the better it is trust me.

Then, try to get to these dancing things more often, it's a great place to flirt and to forget things because believe me, dancing gives you a kick.

And about not trusting anyone... male societies and female societies tend to be quite hard on each other because there will be various social rules.

However, those rules do not count when males and femlaes meet thus it is very much possible to be more honest and respectful to each other, that's just the way I see it.

But really make sure you don't meet the wrong type of guy.

Very much, you want to KNOW he is honest and not go blindly with the super confident guy because this guy will care more about himself than you.

You MUST see that he is clearly interested when you talk otherwise he is definitely a waste of time.

Yes I hate those conversations where everyone wants to be the leader a lot too.

If you know what I mean I could understand those conversations will not please you.

Please just try this and if it doesn't work mail me on this forum and if you want to talk about it I can give you my MSN if you want.

I hope you can life YOUR life like this with YOUR people and find respectful conversations that are really about something and have a nice rest of your life with this advice

I know what its like when you think about commiting suicide, please try this, try to get out of this because strong depressions will hurt you really deep and the damage doesn't get fixed that quick so get out of this, please, there are such good people out there, you just haven't met them, please believe in my advice and if it isn't suited or anything, mail me.

[Asker]

Thank you very much :)

[JohnnyBlaze]

First off, if you are thinking seriously about suicide, please talk to your doctor. NOW. He/she can set you up with a therapist who can help get you through this better than any of us can. Even if it's just suicidal ideation (thinking about it but not trying), it's serious. I know how hard it can be, having a thought like that on your mind. It's one of, if not the most difficult feeling to work through. Please try to stay strong.

It sounds like you've been through a lot; between your brother, your sister, and your mother, you have a lot on your mind. I'd think that'd be a humongous weight on anyone. The fact that you've held it together this long shows how strong you really are. Given that you've reached out to us for help is also good - it means you want to fight this and win. Between your strength and your determination, you can beat this!

Why don't you trust people? What concerns do you have about them?

If you'd rather not talk publicly, please feel free to PM me. Just know that I am here for you.

*hugs*

[SkulaIsMyLover]

You can have all the money, good health, intelligence and beauty in the world, that doesn't mean you'll be happy, though admittedly it probably helps, but it's not the source of happiness. You've got a lot going on, those are things you might not ever overcome completely, but you can learn to cope. You might have days where you just have to lock yourself in a room and scream and cry, but slowly, you will become yourself again. It takes time, and only you know what you need to do to get better.

[Anonymous]

I'm very sorry to hear about all this bad luck that you & your family is having.

I hide behind the face of a clown.

You have to ask yourself would they want you to be this way?

I would hope that you talk to a priest or someone because the one thing that I do know is that your family needs you (now more then ever) If you should make that final decision they will feel worse & think that it's their fault.

Thing will get better but not if your not here to let them get better.

There's always time for you to wait & see but not if you end it.

[Anonymous]

pics or it ain't true...

[Asker]

Wtf? Why pics!?

[Opinion Owner]

you said you're hot..with no proof..