We were long distance couple when we were together we fought a lot and it feels like we were about to break up, and he decided to tell me all the lies he had told me. One of that was he proposed to his ex and still love her, we wanted to make things work because he told me he wanted to be with me and he's slowly losing his feeling but I was hurt it was almost 2 years but he hasn't get over her. Things got ugly and I cried a lot while we talk on phone, we fought more and he stressed seeing me crying and not eating. He said it feels it he torture me by still talking to me and sad seeing me crying and change because he said I was a happy person. We agree to break up and he told me he wants to see me move on, be happy and told me it's ok to throw all the things remind me of him but he wouldn't throw the things reminds him of me even all our pics, he said he might want to be with someone else but he said he done looking, he told me he will always love me and when I said so we're not gonna be back forever he said forever is a long time we never know what would happen. He wants to still talk to me and even asked me if he can still call me baby. After a day talking to him about regretting and everything I told him if it's best for us to take some thing off of each other and talk when we're in a better situation, and told me he'll be there when I need to talk and will call me right back if he miss my call. It's been 5 days he hasn't contacted me. Will he come back? Will he try to contact me first?
No, he will not come back because of all the problems associated with a long distance relationship will resolve themselves just like that.
The longer the silence remains, the more the problem will get worse. You are expecting him to call you and he thinks "if she does not call me back, then I do not mean much to my girlfriend". Each one stays on his/her present position.
If you call first, then you show that you are weak and if he calls first, then he will look weak in his own eyes.
As long as you cannot settle this problem on a face to face basis, nothing positive will happen and the longer nothing happens, the further apart you move.
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He Has Already Proposed to his Ex and Never Moved on from Her. He will Be On and Off again with You and Will Want His Cake and Eat It Two. I could Never Trust him. Move ON. xxoo
It sounds like at least he is communicating and you should also communicate to him and appreciate that he opened up to you
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He could impossible to tell especially if he talks to other women and with him not being over his ex
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