Should I be annoyed that my boyfriend still has a teddy bear from his ex?

[Paulina528]

I don't know why he still has it. He said he was over his ex girlfriends. I feel like him having the teddy is still him holding into her.

[bunnahies]

i keep all stuff from ex's. i see no reason to throw/give it away when its cute as heck. i have no emotional attachment in that sort of way. bf knows about me keeping things of ex's and it doesn't bother him. we were cleaning out his boxes and found a bunch of stuff from his ex. he gave me the option to keep it for myself or donate it. i kept half of it. doesn't bother either of us. its trust i guess :/
i dont see why we should be upset about the past. we shouldn't throw away the past, even if it was bad. it happened and we all had some fond memories of those people that made us who we are today. :/

[Anonymous]

guys don't focus on one girl, in a guy's mind he is always thinking about all the girls he has ever been with.

[Eiffelgirl21]

haha itd be weird to me... I would wonder why he still has it as well..

[Eiffelgirl21]

thanks love. I hope you talked to him about it and things are better now :-) my bfs always usually get rid of everything their exs got them... and that would be normal lol

[Walirious]

I have the same question about my girlfriend, she has a giant teddy bear plus a plush Pascal (from the movie Tangled) on her bed from two different guys, which never were her boyfriends, and to me it's weird, even though she claims she's over them, and that those relationships weren't good relationships, and that those relationships paled in comparison to ours. Though I don't constantly find myself thinking about this disturbing fact, every time I think about it, I get this weird feeling that maybe she has them for a reason or whatever. It's just stuff I can't help but ponder about

[Bluegameroyon]

does he sleep with that teddy bear or does he just keep it in his room as some kind of decoration?

either way, you need to talk to him about why the hell he has a teddy bear from his ex gf...

and maybe why he even sleeps with a teddy bear to begin with.

[Theguyoverthere]

A guy having a teddy bear at all past childhood is already weird enough.

[Dutchy]

I'd be more weirded out by a guy having a teddy bear then by it being a souvenir from his ex.

[palek]

If I were you, I'd be more concerned that he HAS a teddy bear than where it came from.

[HoneyBear95]

Yes thats strange how he still has it usually girls still has there exs stuff if they miss them but i never heard that about guys keeping there exs stuff.