Chatroulette destroyed my confidence!

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I am sure most of you know chatroulette so I won't introduce it here but I really can't understand why girls keep skipping me there , I meet with a girl, I start to type a letter and... she skips me... That really ruin my self confidence ! ! Am I that ugly? I feel so bad because all of girls are very shallow and judgmental like that... 
There are some girls that didn't skip me but most of them (even ugly girls) skip me , Does this mean I am horrible looking? I really can't understand this :(

Phantom-menace · Accepted Answer

Your not going to pull a girl on chatroulette anyway. Girls skip you, because they probably interested in other things on that site, they probably not on that site, for some strange man to chat them up.

If your looking to date women, go on a dating site, or go places where you can become friends and meet girls. The internet overall is not the best place to meet women anyway.

Stop living in the internet world, and go and talk to women in the real world. The internet will of course destoy your confidence, with regards to everything in your life. Social networking sites are not much better, that will destroy your communication skills.

Your the typical person of what the internet and social networking sites do to people.

Board · Accepted Answer

there's 2 reasons for it...

1) there are so many guys there, they can "choose" the one they want to talk to. So they'll just skip till they find someone they think could be a model.

2) still based on number one. A lot of people go on there to search for a "perfect" guy. So if you aren't looking like a model, you get skipped. And once that button is pressed they can't go back.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

Don't base your self-confidence on other people, especially not people online. I wouldn't recommend using that site as a means of meeting women. Step away from the internet and work on getting some inner confidence. Then, when you're ready, go out and try to meet women in real life.

DragonWolf · Accepted Answer

Few guys from my class skip everyone and try to skip more than the rest... So you shouldn't let anything like that make you feel worse about yourself. If they skip you, they just aren't worthy enough to be with you.

COCOCHANEL · Accepted Answer

i'm going to investigate this. in the meantime, teenagers are like that.

sawno · Answer

Oh don't worry i have been on these sites a lot in the past and people skip anyone for anything.
Its very natural and it literally happens to everyone. Just be patience on those sites.
Like Eric Cartman once said 'If you wan't to find some quality friends you have to get trough the dicks first'.

Anonymous · Answer

You're basing your self-confidence on some video chat site on the internet? What are these new generations coming to?

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

just think of it this way, the people on there don't take shit srsly, they're either looking for entertainment, or are reh-tar-ded.

Tokana · Answer

Check out the male-female ratio: "On average in sessions showing a single person, 89% of these were male and 11% were female. " You'd have to be the top 10-15% of males just to have a shot.

isaynononono · Answer

chatroullete is not the real world. Dont let it base your confidence. Dont go there ever again.

Anonymous · Answer

Dont take it tooo personally sometimes if a guy looks boring on there people tend to skip not personal really

rotinaj10 · Answer

Don't do that to yourself. Chatroulette shouldn't be where you get your confidence from.

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