If your girl got cat called right in front of you what action would you take?

Question

So some loser disrespect you and your girlfriend how would you react?

pnl86 · Accepted Answer

This is not the jungle, this is civilized society.

If we were in the jungle with no laws, I would kick his ass. But, since we're not in the jungle with no laws, and we have these things called "crimes," which include "assault," I wouldn't let some person's comments cause me to jeopardize my freedom and lack of any criminal record.

At the end of the day, he's not "disrespecting" her. All he's doing is communicating that he is interested in her or wants her. Good for him. By continuing to walk, we're communicating that she isn't interested in him, that he isn't going to have what he wants, and what two flying fucks are not given by him communicating his interest in her because I don't feel one ounce threatened by the potential of her leaving me for him.

So, it's not "disrespectful" and it's not a real "threat." Even if it were, "violence" of "physical contact" is not the appropriate way to deal with that issue. If I'm with a girl who needs to see her man engage in physical contact or have some reaction to those kinds of things in order for her to feel "special," then that's a girl that no guy needs to be with - seriously.

PiuBelloAmante · Accepted Answer

i would tell him if he wants to disrespect my girl, i will tell him to come say something about me.

you can't win tbh, i got into a fight cause a guy touched my gfs butt at a party, and my girlfriend, got upset that i had hit him and "ruined the party"
if i didn't hit him, she would have felt like i didn't want to protect her... I don't know man

iamshelly · Accepted Answer

Sometimes I wonder if I'm the only girl who's never been catcalled, lol. The only thing anyone's ever said to me on the street was call me a pig from their car window while I was eating pizza.

Anyway, I would expect my boyfriend to do nothing. Not because he doesn't care about me of course, but because to be fair, he's a little skinny and wouldn't win a fight. If anything, I'd want him to put his arm around me and keep walking.

Killer-Queen · Accepted Answer

I can handle it myself. Usually, I will just laugh and leave it at that if it's something like they're driving by yelling something harmless from an apartment building or whatever. But if it's disrespectful, I'll tell them to fuck off and that's that.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't want my boyfriend to say anything back. At most just grab my hand, put his arm around me would be enough.

User746283 · Answer

My fiancé and I went to a bodega on the corner in a rough neighborhood today. As we walk in, two hood guys (one guy taller than me about 4 in and other about 6) cashing out right at the entrance. The shorter guy notices my fiancé walking in front of me and then he makes a full 180 staring at her ass making stupid remarks.

(My fiancé is smart and after talking to her about it she tells me that she just ignores guys when they do it and maybe I should too but it’s just such a shitty feeling)

Anyway, I’m human and it’s the first time I’ve ever seen my fiancé experience shit like this, I got heated feeling disrespected so I made a face and shook my head and said “wtf is wrong with you.” He proceeds to say “I’ll look at what I like and if you got a problem with it,” blah blah blah we exchange some words that I don’t really remember and then he mouths something the likes of “if I didn’t need to go I’d slap the shit outta you” just as he walks right out. I know these guys are bigger than me but i don’t care you make my girl feel uncomfortable or disrespect her like that I’m gonna say something. It could’ve gone much more worse and I’m glad it didn’t since I have my trusty nine on me for these parts of the city. So yeah wasn’t really expecting this to happen today and not proud of that interaction but wouldn’t have it any other way

ThisDudeHere · Answer

This is that type of thing where it's impossible to know what to do. Most women will say something along the lines of "oh I want my boyfriend to not start a fight and get in trouble for something silly like that" but then will deep down feel less feminine or something because of their guy not protecting their honor. At least that's what some posts on the internet where women complained about guys doing nothing indicate.

imnotcrearive · Answer

Probably laugh and make a joke back. If he becomes disrespectful then we'd get to insults and if he wanted to throw down I'd have no problem doing that. However, most people will respond in kind if you show them your nice side. After all he's only complimenting your girl, what reason have you to start a fight? Oh that's right... Insecurity.

AleDeEurope · Answer

I would just keep walking. Picking a fight with an immature ignorant guy is just stupid and shows you're not much better than him. So I'll just pull my girl closer to me and keep walking.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

what is that mortal kombat? :P I would just give him the disapproving headshake but smile at the same time :D hahaa

Whoooooooooo · Answer

I won't hit a guy just cause he said something.  I would say something back like "sorry man already put a ring on it"

fauchelevent · Answer

I'd be happy to deal with the situation myself :) His response was that he'd laugh because I'd get flustered or scared, but I hope I'd be a bit more badass. He quite likes responding to some of the messages I get on here though.

snowangle · Answer

I would want my boyfriend to keep walking. No need to start a fight.

slywinkle · Answer

I may not attack him, but I'd damn sure let him know he'd better watch his mouth. I guess it could get ugly if he pushed things. Still, if my girl said not to worry about it, I'd probably let it lie

justbanANNAz · Answer

lol this was actually turned into a cute moment. this happened while i was out with an ex, he just put his arm around me, looked at me, smiled and said 'mhmm, that's MY girl'. :)

jakeofalltrades · Answer

FINISH HIM

AdamThomas · Answer

Depends. If he did it from a distance probably just snigger at him and move on, he's no threat and she's coming home with me anyway. If he came close just chin him.

zell0is0my0name · Answer

Break his nose, then all his limbs. I'd be a force to reckon with!

Bards · Answer

You don't have to kick his ass but if you do

Dave-x11 · Answer

He isn't worth my time, continue walking and if he still follows us or annoys us i would make him back off i guess👌

RandomUsername3464 · Answer

I wouldn't do anything, why is it my responsibility to stand up for someone else? Some girl kicked me in the ass and whistled at me a few months ago, and everyone in the immediate vicinity laughed. Did anybody help me? No!

complicated_soul · Answer

Keep walking, unless I feel safe. Then I will call him something bad, like rascal.

Alexious · Answer

I'd be like "tough shit dude, she's mine." *wraps my arm around her and kisses her on the forehead*

Fortres · Answer

I would support my girl, touch her arm, offer encouraging words, laugh or emote about it later, and treat her as the special woman that she is, and value her in her entirety

RationalMale · Answer

I'm not going to start something if I don't need to. A catcall? I don't really care.

Someone catcalls, then starts coming over to us? My hand's going to be resting on a weapon.

He starts something... he'll be going to the hospital.

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