This guy asks me "so what do you want to talk about?" what do I say?

[Anonymous]

This guy asks me "so what do you want to talk about?" what do I say? I wanna ask if he likes me. but I think its too soon. so what do I talk about? like subjects?

[LoveIsBlind123]

Look, I asked a girl if she likes me, and she didn't reply. Just ask, and if there is no answer, or there is an answer you didn't want, just play it cool. Act like you thought that's what would happen. and, things to talk about... idk. Really, I would start talking about relationships, just don't bring up your ex.

[Asker]

Ohh okay . Well I just don't want to weird things out. I'm not sure how he would react . I want o be friends if it's not going to go anywhere. But I'm just not sure. I don't know if that's what he's going for.. because if that's what he wanted to talk about... wouldn't he have just mentioned it instead of going all around it and waiting for me to ask?

[Asker]

Well he just asked me who I like. Does that mean he likes me? Or he just wants to know. ( and we Have been texting all day. and he texts me first..)

[LoveIsBlind123]

If you like him. tell him. Even if he doesn't like you, guys like it better when girls tell them that they like them. and it hasn't really been weird with the girl at all, and I was pretty sure it would have been, but it wasnt. and he's waiting for you to ask because he is shy, he isn't confident. And when I say he isn't confident, I mean, he just doesn't know what to do about you. Like, Right now, I know all this info on both guys and girls, but when it comes to the girls I like, I have no clue.

[Asker]

Okay! Thank you so much for the advice! And I know what you mean. It's harder with the people you like!

[LoveIsBlind123]

Yea, like a beautiful girl in my class... the only one we have together and its ending with the end of the semester. In my eyes, she is the prettiest girl in the school, and I want to tell her stuff like that, but I don't want to weird her out. But yea. I'm the wizz on girls. I can get them, the fast and wrong way, but they always fall in love with me after they start dating me.

[Asker]

Hahahha Nice! But Girls LOVE LOVE LOVEEEE stuff like that. saying beautiful is much much better than hot. trust me. you won't weird them out. they";ll probably end up liking you!

[LoveIsBlind123]

Yea, see I know a lot about girls. And, I know but if she doesn't like me, it will be weird, for me at least. and you have to tell me how it went.

[Asker]

ok, well I never told him who I liked I told him it was some1 I've been talking to a lot lately. that should have hinted it right? I also said "how about you" and he said "Idk, I haven't really thought about it" but that doesn't seem right! Obviously he thought about it, otherwise he wouldn't have asked, right? Well either way, it didn't really go anywhere. It was kind of a downer. So I don't know what'll happen next. I don't know if he'll text me today. He might! But I was a bit disappointed. But he is pretty shy

[LoveIsBlind123]

Really, in this situation, just come out and tell him. I bet he will he happy, if he likes you or not, and that's the main thing, making sure the other person is happy, whether you are, or not.

[Cupcakecutie0]

Just ask to hang out, he will probably have more to say if you guys hang out more often.

Also just because you don't text all day doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

[Asker]

Ohh okay. thanks!

[bjs09]

What he did that day, how he is, how work/school was and then move onto real subjects. his family, his friends, what he does on the weekend, if he plays sports/instruments, tv, movies, books... there's a million subjects in the world. ask him his favorite color, whatever.

[Asker]

We've covered basically all that.! It's funny actually!