the best thing to do is to get to know him more you need to focus on building trust with him. as for the sex part BJ is still sex to me..but don't go doing it just because of the spur of the moment..he should value you as well and respect you too..i kinda asked myself why he doesn't give a chance hanging with your friends and get to know them..im not saying there is something fishy about it because most decent guys won't pass the oppurtunity of knowing the people around you..his probably trying to spend with you alone which is good but jumping on him for just sex won't do you good either just value yourself and make contact from time to time..regarding his EX let him open up to you just be ready if he doesn't want to commit, I just don't want to see you as a spare tire for him..good luck
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It doesn't sound like you were being too available. Maybe he just canceled sometimes cause he was busy. Having coffee, isn't considered a date. Dating someone is something where you spend more time together if you like each other. Going to the movies, restaurant, trip. Sounds like he's into you, but just pulling away cause your pulling away. Go with the flow, and let it develop.
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