Why do none of the girls at my high school like me?

[Anonymous]

I usually date out of my school, every one there is either red neck, prep or emo, with a few gangsters, none of the girls talk to me as more then a friend and most I can get out of any girl is I'm cute. I don't know what my style is I'm my own person, I don't think I'm unattractive but what other answer is there? I'm not a mean person and I do my best to help others. I love to write poems and sorta classical stuff mixed with modern romance. I'm not fashionable and truth is I wouldn't know where to begin on that. I never smell I make a point of that, and I'm mildly athletic ( I only recently got started with physical activities) I'm on track and I do army JROTC physical work out team. True I don't have a six pack but its not like I'm a bear belly or anything. I'm usually quite and license well. Please don't think I'm bragging I'm just saying what I do.

What is wrong with me and why aren't girls interested in me?

[rammerjammerr22]

Well do you come off as being snobby or act like your to good to be there? I mean since you pretty much labeled all of them as something you don't find attractive..maybe they can sense that and they feel as if you think you can get way better than them, which may not be the case. Just have a more positive attitude and get to know the girls a little more.

[Asker]

I didn't say I didn't find it atractive I <3 emos rednecks are cool preps are alright but usually snooby toward me and gangsters I avoid because I'm afraid Ill get shot but I usually dnt talk a lot and when I do its because I'm either complimenting some one or asking something or I thought of something funny.

[rammerjammerr22]

Well maybe start talking to them a little more..and see if that helps. Girls want guys who actually have something to say.

[Asker]

ok thx :)

[udolipixie]

They don't find you attractive or interesting but the girls outside your school do.

Not every girl everywhere will like you.

[Asker]

Its not every girl I want to like me just any I can see every day I'm sick of not seeing my gfs every day and seeing all the couples around school

[udolipixie]

So why rant about women instead of posting a question on what to do when you & your girlfriend go to different schools?

Text her in the hallways, meet up someplace close, if you're all9wed eat lunch off school grounds, hang out after school.

Don't get p*ssy that girls in a certain place don't find you attractive

[Partytimexx]

I don't think anything's wrong with you..

if you're nice and all, I'd probably date ya :)

[Voltaire]

You don't go to his school, which kinda makes his point.

[Asker]

Thx :) Id take you up on that offer only like Voltaire said you don't go to my school and I'm sick of not seeing who I'm dating every day. But if you ever get transfered to South Fork High in south florida Ill def. take you up on that offer.

[Partytimexx]

errrm. I live in Switzerland. But ima keep that in mind. ;) hehe.

[Voltaire]

No idea. Probably something to do with the fact that you consider them all rednecks, preps, emos and gangsters. Negative opinions can be read fairly easily, even by teenagers.

[Asker]

I don't see it as negative but as discriptive of the general population and I usually don't refer to my class mates as such lol

[Voltaire]

Right, but you obviously don't consider them as positives, you cited them for reasons that you date out of your school. People can pick up on distaste like that.

[That-Girl]

Well since I don't know you personally I can only assume that its not you its those girls at your school. I never dated anyone at my high school because they were all immature losers to me lol...

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with you at all. The girls that don't like you are probably all douches anyways. Actually most girls in general are douches when it comes to dating. They say they want a nice guy but really go out with the douche bag guys.

[udolipixie]

Bitter rant here.