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i love my bf, but lately all his been doing is pissing me off and then we get ourself into fights.
it started afew wks back him always showing up late, and making other plans knowin when we are going out.
eg. yesterday was my only day off work for next 3wks, and he wanted to spend the day with me so I cancelled all my plans and he ended up going to work which was fine, but comming to 3pm he didn't show up so I called he said he was workin back till 5 and be over at 6, so long comes 6 I call him again and he said he's boss is taking him out for dinner and he'll be there at 8.he finally came over at 7:30, we got into an arguement and I was about to break up with him, but then he said sorry and I have every reason to be mad with him then beg me not to leave him. he ended up taking me out of the night.
im confussed if he still really wants this relationship as much as me or not. he says he does, but it hasn't been a first I've been lied to. am I'm being too hard on him, I'm afraid if I'm too hard he'll leave me, but if I don't tell him how I feel I might leave him!
it started afew wks back him always showing up late, and making other plans knowin when we are going out.
eg. yesterday was my only day off work for next 3wks, and he wanted to spend the day with me so I cancelled all my plans and he ended up going to work which was fine, but comming to 3pm he didn't show up so I called he said he was workin back till 5 and be over at 6, so long comes 6 I call him again and he said he's boss is taking him out for dinner and he'll be there at 8.he finally came over at 7:30, we got into an arguement and I was about to break up with him, but then he said sorry and I have every reason to be mad with him then beg me not to leave him. he ended up taking me out of the night.
im confussed if he still really wants this relationship as much as me or not. he says he does, but it hasn't been a first I've been lied to. am I'm being too hard on him, I'm afraid if I'm too hard he'll leave me, but if I don't tell him how I feel I might leave him!
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Tell him how you feel. He may not be aware of how down you feel about it, but at the same time don't shout at him. If he's annoying you, I would explain that to him. If he doesn't seem to care, or he continues to annoy you, I would leave him. Better to be single and not hung up over a guy than to be taken and annoyed at your partner.
Maybe I don't have this right, but you were going to break up with him because he was late? I understand that he was putting you off until his schedule was free for the evening, but to totally break up with him is a little excessive IMO. It's that kind of all or nothing attitude which kills relationships sooner than later.
try to losen up little bit with him don't have this attitude that will make you guys break up for no reason , try to talk to him more and be undeerstandig for him and he should do the same for you .