First of all let me ask you why would you want to be friends with him anyways? He seems like he has a terrible personality. He seems very immature and that he has a lot of growing up to do. He probably did you a favor by deleting you. You should just do the rest and never contact him. It's for the best. Been there, trust me. Exs are Exs for a reason. They aren't there to talk about your problems and they aren't there to be your friends. H didn't get his way so now he is dealing with it terribly. Besides you broke up with him. What is the point of being fb friends with him? Especially after him getting angry. Not a good sign. Stay away from that. I am speaking from experience. Listen to me on this DO NOT CONTACT HIM. EVER. But he acted immature and deleted you because like I said he is immature and is pissed. If he cared about you he would have never acted that way towards you. Every woman deserves a guy that treats her like a princess and he is not your prince.
This happened to me, actually. He didn't unfriend me for a while (during which time he started posting pictures of himself with other girls), but then he unfriended and blocked me completely and kicked me from a group in which he was the admin. (And I hadn't even made any move online to suggest how I felt or that anything had changed in my life.) I think unfriending is okay, but blocking is just not nice, provided that neither person is sending the other angry messages or anything similar. You don't want to keep seeing posts about their new life or how much they hate you when you're still recovering, you know?
The only weird thing now is that this girl who was in one of his pictures keeps sending me messages. I don't know what to think about that.
It happens. Some relationships you just can't be friends with them or see them or hear anything about them. I'm sure he's hurt and didn't want to be reminded that you dumped him and every time he sees you online is just a reminder. It's not a personal thing and after all, you're the one who broke up with him.
Why would he want to speak to you if all he feels is pain, frustration and anger?
When I unfriend someone on Facebook, that's because we aren't friends anymore.
This isn't a "preschool stunt" to look down upon, he doesn't consider you a friend and he'd rather keep his distance than speak to you again. The fact that you degrade him, for doing a commonly done act after ending a relationship should kinda show you why he may want to avoid you.
That will probably upset you, but I'm sorry to say that it's the truth. Let him move on, or make him fall for you again. Relationships come, relationships go.
MD5.
Maybe he's decided to move on. Don't take it personally beause he needs to have time to himself. When relationships end the friend zone doesn't always happen... Especially if you broke it off and he still has feelings for you. If you called it quits and he still likes you it's too painful for him to just be your friend right now. The only thing that will remove his pain is a new love in his life... Then you two can resume your friendship.
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You are too funny. You broke up with him and you expect him to stay friends with you? That's what normal people do to get over other people. Apparently he cares about you a lot so he did this just to stay away from you so he won't be hurt. You're hurt and calling him immature. I think you are the immature one thinking Facebook is everything.
I'm wondering if your immaturity has lead to him blocking you.. it's certain that avoiding an ex who causes pain is the best way to get over them. Did you miss treat the poor guy in a way that would make him deeply offended and hurt? Perhaps he simply sees you as not worth his time anymore because of how you treated him and does not think you are good friendship material.
Sounds to me like he's hurting :/
The angry SMS were just a natural lashing out. Lots of emotion going through him because of the break up. He has probably unfriended you so he can get that distance, and he doesn't have to watch you being OK while he is in pain.
Let him have his time. Everybody heals differently, this is his way. He doesn't see you as a friend at the moment, but he may do someday.
I wouldn't sweat it. My ex disabled her FB for a week then when she reactivated it she blocked me. It feels like a personal blow at first but it's for the best. After some time there's always a chance to refriend it up on there. But while you heal it's best not to hear or see anything about them. "Out of sight out of mind"
You are worrying about "Facebook"?
Keep in mind Facebook is just an assortment of ones and zeros stored within some network of hard drives connected to a rather large stream of more ones and zeros.
Facebook friend's list can be equated with a board game. You win some and you lose some.
What you do when you aren't in front of your computer is your actual life. Facebook isn't your life.
I did the same thing to a girl few days ago but she's not my girlfriend or anything. Just a girl that I liked. But I mean why wouldn't he delete you if you didn't respond to him. Either say something or get unfriended. I think he's just mad that you ignored him. BUT seems like you like him that's why you were shocked so try to message him like "Heyyy why did you delete me"..Its hard for women to understand men I guess.
I'm just curious.. why was it that he was so angry with you? What did he say you did? because unfriending does insinuate he's still hurting... weirdly it's an expression of validation like "I still like you"..
Its understandable if he wants space if you broke up. He probably couldn't handle his emotions and unfriending you was one of the only things he could control with a touch of a button. I'm sure you are worth more than being toyed with by some guy.
He wants to get over you quicker and he couldn't do that while staring at your FB picture. Out of sight, out of mind. He just took it harder than your other ex.
Are you really that surprised? He is hurt why would he want to be your "friend" you know friends are people you are suppose to trust, does he have a reason to trust you after you broke up with him?
He did this out of anger. Probably he'll putyou back after a time.
This happens in most break-ups, so don't be surprised!
Not every couple stays friends when they break up. Or if they break up that is. He probably wants you only as a girlfriend and not a friend.
in all reality, why would someone want to be friends with an ex? All seeing sh*t on their feed does is stir up unwanted emotions.
It's not a preschool stunt. It's a standard way to get over a relationship.
Besides, preschoolers are technically too young to have a FB in the first place.
You broke up with him. He decided to move on. This is life 101 not preschool. It is time to move on too.
He doesn't want you and is going no contact. GET OVER YOURSELF! You aren't the centre of his universe.
apparently he doesn't want you to talk to him or know anything about him anymore
becouse he dosen't give a sh*t.
why does it matter?
he's your EX. keyword:ex
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