I also have a best guy friend in my life, and he is just a natural flirt. We have a great connection, and I love him to death.. and he loves me too.. but as friends. This playfulness that he is showing you, is probably just his personality. How does he interact with other girls? He's probably a natural joker, playful and a big flirt. I wouldn't read into this as being anything more-- especially for the sake of the friendship-- draw a boundary here and stop yourself from assuming that there is a chance he wants more..he has a girlfriend. If you claim to be a great friend, then you wouldn't disrespect his relationship, and want to be supportive of him being in a happy, healthy one with his girlfriend.
A question for you too-- when you tried to take it to the next level when you were drunk, how did he respond? I'm sorry, but I must say that this was very wrong on your part. And him doing body shots on you is also very inappropriate.
The fact that he thinks of you as a sister-- should put the answer to your question very black and white. He thinks of you as a sister. He has a girlfriend.
And the poor girlfriend. He must care enough about her to be in relationship with her-- perhaps you should show more respect for her too, as one of his friends, and not be so selfish.
If you want to be a 'great' friend, I think you need to stop acting/thinking this way--grow up--, and stop trying to do your part to ruin his relationship.
Get your own boyfriend..not one that's taken. And start to actually be a true friend.
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hmmm...okay my thought is that maybe he's just having fun...you know? since his girlfriend isn't around and you're the closest women to him at the moment. And wow as his sister...some freaky bro you got there! lol
but yeah I think he's just using you sorry...I know I'm young but I still think this guy is wrong.
how could you still be great friends with this guy after he treated you like that...maybe you should limit some things you know? Tell him "no" sometimes.
See how he acts to that, then if he looks really hurt and not like a sad puppy face hurt maybe you can tell time after time how he feels or you should tell him that he somewhat hurt your feelings with the whole sister thing.
Hope I helped...:D
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he's playing...! he has a girlfriend...he can talk and play with you and get his ego filled!
Stop before you get hurt...bottom line is if he wanted to have more with you he would have said it and kept you on the side...lil sister...mmmm you don't dance sexually with your sister.Does he ever see you out with other men?
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