My boyfriend broke up with me over the phone, and he won't speak to me ever since the break up.
me and my boyfriend had been with each other for over 2years, and one night he decided to finish with me over the phone. it was a total shock to me, as we had only been together that weekend and we had a really nice time together. he didn't really give me a proper explanation of why he was breaking up with me. he just said that ever since he had moved away to London for work our relationship was going to fail. he said that his head wasn't in our relationship anymore, and he just wanted to be on his own and concentrate on his work. but why didn't he tell me this that weekend when we were together? ever since that night he hasn't spoken to me. I text a few times the first week of the breakup asking to meet up and talk, but he just replied saying that he wasn't looking on getting back together, and he was happy on his own, and that I had to stop texting him. I haven't tried getting in touch with him since, and it has been a month now since we broke up. I have spoken to his mother, and he has told her that he loves me,and always will, but he doesn't see the point in us being together while he lives so far away from me. and the reason he won't ring me is that he knows if we speak we will get back together, and things will just be back to how they were. I really love him, we had planned to get married and have kids, and I know that he is the person I want to be with. yes,things were hard between us with him living so far away, and we didn't get to see one another much, but id rather see him a little than not at all. will he want to speak in time?
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