How do you respond to being called ugly?

Question

yea i know this is a weird question but im one of those people who seem to get called ugly a lot for no apparent reason, i try not to let it get me down or lower my self esteem more than it already is

so to make them mad i reply with "yea im ugly but your not" then i smile to make them mad
 
i try to kill them with kindness

MaxRocks · Accepted Answer

I've been there when I was around 14-16 especially with guys, but even people on the street sometimes tried to screw with me by insulting me too. Never had any issues with girls I knew tho most of them were sweet and kind and even got a few dates. But mostly it was just guys.

First off you seriously got to get in the habit of not caring about what other people think. Simply realize this is none of your business. Whether they like you or not matters nothing. You can still have fun, you can still explore the world, do radical sports, you can do anything at all. Besides there are much worse things in the world than being called ugly.
There are people who have much worse than you. I'm not saying "omg stop whining look at those little kids in Africa" because that's not how you deal with this. I'm saying "Look at those people who get born and then have to stay 10 or 20 years in an hospital bed and then die", because there are people like that. Be grateful for whatever you have.

Finally, now replying to your question, initially I would simply deal with it by shutting up and moving on and repeating to myself in my head that the world still goes on and life still goes on. There's a portuguese hip-hop song that goes "Há pessoas más e não podemos fazer nada. Passou bem, mandou foder com um sorriso na cara", which translates +/- into "There are bad people and we can't do anything about it. It's ok, tell them to go fuck themselves with a smile on your face". Way cooler in portuguese tho.

But since I started to hang out with people who just don't admit being disrespected I got wayyyy more aggressive. It hasn't happened in years but if someone insults me in the street loud enough for me to hear I will just stand there and stare at them to show that I'm not afraid of them at all. Next time they pass by most likely they will keep their head down. But yea the best, most passive solution is to simply ignore. Easier said than done tho.

JackKerouac77 · Accepted Answer

Soooooo ZEN

BeInnovative · Accepted Answer

I'd just say thank you.
Actually, nobody but my own cousin told me exactly this paragraph at a wedding ceremony of a family member when I was 16:
"Oh surprisingly enough you look beautiful. I don't know what they did to you at the beauty saloon. Don't misunderstand me but you are not attractive as a woman. No guy would want to date you. That is why I wondered how you accomplished looking that beautiful. But you are cute in your own way when you talk."

I just looked at him for five minutes until he finished his talking, then said:

"Thank you. I am glad that I attract your attention in both ways: both when I am ugly and artificially beautiful after going to a beauty saloon. It means that I can attract attention of guys very well in either way. Also did you notice that you are 26, still having acne and 250 pounds with a height of 5'6''?"

Since I was 16, and I have been/was/am kinda a person never showing emotions or disappointment or anything, and talking directly to the face, nobody thought I was offended so much at his words. It ruined my self-confidence in relationship with guys for two years. This is exactly the thing that shouldn't have been said to a puberty girl.

But later when I noticed I am not ugly- because everyone has his/her own beauty in his/her own way, and the guys are actually attracted to me -well I am constant single due to my high standards, that is another point- nothing has made me doubt myself and ruined my confidence.

All you need to do/say/imply is "I don't really care what the fuck you are thinking about my physical appearance. Your shallowness is uglier than I am for sure." So I would just say "Thank you for caring to tell me that I am ugly" with a calm and not bothered attitude if today someone calls me ugly.

Do it.. It works very well.

lurker · Accepted Answer

depends on the person and the situation you are called ugly.

1. if it is a random person on the street (things like: omg, what is she wearing, he's hair looks messy) or some guy at the club, I completely ignore them

2. if it's someone I know and only makes a joke, I tell them I'm beautiful and they should reconsider their standards :p

3. if it's someone I know and they really give me an advice, I take the advice. now the people that care about me won't call me ugly for hurting my feelings, but they would make remarks. For example, if my sister tells me that the dress I'm wearing shows too much, I will change it or put on a bolero. When I suddenly lost a lot of weight due to a stressful situation, my brother told me I should work out because I have the body of an old lady (or Gollum in LOTR) so I started to work out and I now look and feel better about myself.

So think about it: are there parts that you think you can improve in you appearence? (working out, wearing chlotes that look better on you, improve your posture)? Always work to improve and be your best possible self. And when some douche/bitch tells you that you are ugly, they only do it to get a reaction from you. Ignore ignore ignore, that will sting!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When i was younger i was called ugly by some boys in my grade for no reason. I just later on heard they were calling me ugly. Being a middle school girl, i cried for days and was embarrassed to go to school or even look at anyone. That uncomfortable feeling of everyone thinking i'm ugly has kinda always stayed with me. Even when people are responding well, and i'm joking around and others are entertained it will pop back into my head that maybe someone is looking at me thinking eww she's ugly why is she even talking? and then i get really shy and just try not to draw any attention to myself.

I'm an adult now, i've been in long term relationship. Yet i've never felt attractive. I get it, it stays with you. But you just have to try not to focus on those people and focus on the person who does want to be with you, there's obviously some good qualities about you that makes someone want to be around you right. I may not think i'm pretty and i may not be pretty to anyone in this world. But i figure i have some good quality that someone wants to be around me despite my looks.

kelly173815 · Answer

#nogagmyopinionisnottooshort

YeuxMystificateur14 · Answer

In all respect, you are a very handsome man with a distinguished look, but have you ever thought that people are using reverse psychology on you because of it. As for your question, my mom literally told me that whenever this happens, to say " Why don't you tell God what a horrible job he did making me." In other words, none of us made ourselves. Though keep in mind, if your face reads that you don't like yourself evil people will play on it, not because it's true but because they know that you think that it is true.

Hope this helps, God Bless.

xuewu · Answer

"good thing I tried to look like you today"
"that's what I was aiming for"
"I'm not a mirror"
"no one asked for your opinion"
if it's morning/afternoon - "count the stars in the sky-that is the amount of f*cks I give"
"do you feel better now?"
if it's a girl - "that reminds me i got you another tube of foundation I know how fast you use it up"
if it's a boy - "well we all know how much time you spend on your appearance"
if they say " a lot" - "yeah and it still makes no difference"
if they say "not much" - "yeah it shows"

Anonymous · Answer

You gotta take it as a motivator man, I dropped 60 pounds and all the bunnies started coming for me after a girl called me fat I got a hot girlfriend and now I'm slaying bra so take it as a motivator go "I'm never gonna get called ugly again" and start hitting the gym if you don't have the face you can work on the body luckily for me the face came once I lost weight but don't let if faze you and look yourself in the mirror decide hey am I hot and if the answers yes work out make yourself hotter good luck bro :)

Mgoods · Answer

Well, I just tend to outwardly let it go, but inside I harbour a deep hatred for that person.
I just don't understand what people gain from telling me this. Obviously, we are already aware of what we look like. So the fuck what? I can't change my face... So what reason do you feel the need to share this?

TedStar · Answer

Either   or

Nsinger · Answer

My general response to most insults thrown at me:

Aizou · Answer

When people have seen themselves mad at me
or in some other way just feel the need to insult me

What I do, is that, a bit like you, I agree with them
but nothing else after, I just agree with them, it usually
either pisses them off, or they just quit trying.

Example: You're so ugly..
Me: I know / Yea / Too bad, huh?

It's the best way I've found to
like, do something against
dumb people like them.

Now you just have to find your
own way to deal with it, however
I like your "kill them with kindness"
tactic too. ^.^

Bellibooo · Answer

Okay two thing:
1. You are NOT ugly, and you seem like a really sweet and kind person as well.
2. What I would do, as someone who suffers from extensive bullying and bad self confidence, is to remind yourself everyday that you are good enough as you are. I know it sounds silly, but try to look yourself in the mirror every now and then and say that "Damn, I am hot today" or "I am good enough as I am, I am good person".
Much love to you and try to not let people with cold hearts to break you down!

Rudegirljune · Answer

You don't appear to be ugly yes I looked LOL and so what people call me ugly all the time hell I call people ugly everyday LOL it's mostly a expression but it's ugly men in real life who be in my face. I'm in KY that's what we say expression wise "hey ugly" but on a serious note... everybody is ugly to somebody don't let that fuck with your self esteem and if they say it say simply say #THANK YOU that's what I say when people say crazy shit like oh you're mean etc it's always Thank U that's when I'm being a asshole then LOL don't sweat it. we can't change how people view us Fuck them..

CheeseLoveWhiz · Answer

This used to happen to me a lot especially as a pre-teen. I did at the time cry a lot because I thought looks meant everything but, they don't. Here's what I'd say : "Well, so are you." "At least I'm not as ugly as your attitude." , "Yeah but, my ultimate goal is to be as ugly as you." , "At least you're pretty on the outside."
You can also pull a sponge bob and yell "I'm ugly and I'm proud!"
or just smile and shrug your shoulders. My brother shrugged and smiled once when some middle school kid yelled at him "I bet you used to be really lame!" and the kid just shut up after that.

DodgersGM · Answer

I'm a dude so. I know my opinion is sorta negated, but you're clearly not an ugly dude.

As cliché as it sounds, I'd just ignore that shit. Or tell them that you couldn't care less what they think, and that you know you're bangin'.

Red7336 · Answer

see, the more you like yourself the less words like that affect you... since it already has i recommend maybe a new hair cut or change your style or w/e make yourself look pleasantly different and regain confidence :) (this is for you not for them) AND focus on the good things in life, what are the good things you are/have, how fortunate you are, maybe what you have that they dont (but i dont recommend this one at all because it could VERY easily turn into an obsession)

and then it should go like
"you ugly !"
"dont look"

and you wouldn't care deep down either

thetundrawolf · Answer

You walk away with a smile on your face. Anyone who would call you ugly likely has an ugly heart- and while your face might not be as pretty as someone else's an ugly heart destroys the life of the person around it, their family, and their friends.

Someone who love you will love you will love your face, your body, and your heart. Only one of those things can ruin a relationship.

So to answer your question, you walk away, knowing your heart is not as dark as the person who was trying to cut you down.

Be thankful for that fact. That person has a long, difficult, bitter life ahead of them.

Bluemax · Answer

No one since high school has ever called me ugly to my face. It's never gotten back to me since high school that anyone has called me ugly behind my back, though it might have happened. I doubt it, because after all, I am a spectacular blue medal.

When I was in high school, I took my shirt off to play tennis. This one girl shouted out, "Ugh! Put your shirt back on! We don't want to look at that!" Now, I took my shirt off because it was damn hot. I didn't intend to offend anyone. I wish I could say that I thought of something as clever as you, asker, but alas I didn't. I shouted back at her "Put the bag back over your head! We don't want to look at that!" It wasn't the most mature thing to do, and certainly not the wittiest, but I was fifteen and it was the best I could come up with.

She was the last person to all but explicitly call me ugly, though she didn't use the word. Since then, no one has done it.

Hajar_Whitestone · Answer

I don't care how people call me, I was once in restaurant with my sis and her friends we did ask my brother to wait us in another place to pick us up when we where going to meet him 2 boys and a girl called me ugly and they start laughing in front of my sister and her friend it did hurt me a lot but I did ignore them I know am not even average and no one likes me because my ugly face even thought I have a sexy body but I can't change that fact, if I did have money I would do it but I don't so I start accepting the reality am ugly and it's okay..

ShesSoSilly · Answer

Cookie cutter answer: ignore them and don't let other people's opinions have such an effect on you.

Real answer: everyone has insecurities and words do hurt. We don't control our feelings or who would ever feel bad about themselves, or about anything in life. It's especially harsh when you already have doubts or similar thoughts in your mind from yourself.

I think if someone seriously just called me ugly I might be taken back a bit. I honestly don't think I'd have many words for them. You can retaliate if that makes you feel better, but at the same time they are a horrible enough person to even make such a rude remark, I doubt anything I could say would phase them.
They're rude, ignorant, and just simply who they are.

EgyptianNergerts · Answer

"Good, I was trying to look like you anyways". <-- my favorite comeback If you wanna be mature, just ignore them

Megalodon · Answer

Honestly I probably get more offended than I should. I have a low tolerance don't provoke people but sometimes people (mostly guys) have just called me ugly. Most the time they say it in some passive-aggressive manner because they don't want trouble. Just want me to walk away feeling bad about myself.

I have three responses depending on my mood:

If its there first time acting like that in front of me, I'm in a good mood or I'm with someone I' trying not to embarrass, ill just laugh it off.

I get pissed off and make them feel like absolute shit. (beat them at their own game) If they had a low self esteem before, they will cry themselves to sleep.

If they have acted like an asshole to me before, I will call them out on their shit in front of everyone, (get confrontational) which to me is extremely funny because they have no idea how to react.

Anonymous · Answer

you are genuinely not ugly, people tend to call others names as a way of making themselves feel better and'superior' to that person. someone who is insecure about their own looks or feels jealous of another persons looks or achievements tends to call them ugly or another meaningless insult as a quick way to make that person feel like crap and like they aren't worth much.

i would say you are easily an 8/10 i especially like your eyes and the way you look into the camera (sorry to sound creepy!) XD maybe its not that you're ugly that is repelling people but because your frown is kinda intimidating? it gives off the vibe that you dont want people to approach

GalaxyFlame90 · Answer

well i've never called anyone ugly before (not even lying - i was afraid if i called them that someone in the future would call me that as well) thinking is alright but i never say it out aloud. But here's what you do and say: "Really, your really beautiful too" trust I've been called ugly before heck everyone has been called that before even the most beautiful of all the people. Some models have gotten called ugly. My friend calls me it all the type guys call each other that, why : 1. They're jealous 2. They wanna make themselves feel better and be jerks 3. they have nothing better to do 4. They're regarding your mood and your personality and how you act and react 5. All of the above. Dont let it get to you man, You ain't ugly, trust me ugly is when one side of your face is completely different from the others if your face is not proportional or out of proportion, thank Allah most people in the world are not like that.

Anonymous · Answer

I just saw your pic and you are not "ugly" to me I wld say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder if you don't feel i am pretty than I'm not for you" .. people know what to say just to make a person feel bad dnt let it bring you down. my ex bf has told me so many hurtful things, called me names and than in the end comes out with he's sorry.. he didn't mean it just upset. .. soo.. dnt always believe what people say they speak out of anger and ignorance they weren't taught maturity and wisdom you dnt say things like that to people. If you dnt like a person than just walk away.. but like I said I've seen your pic and trust me you aren't "ugly" no such things as ugly. Just that person isn't for you because when the right person comes they will accept you with everything just as you are.. because to them everything you do and how you are is beautiful. . cheer up and shake those people off

harakiri · Answer

"tell me something i don't know" that's how i respond to any insult. people want to get a reaction out of you, not a resigned acceptance of their insult.

Stacyzee · Answer

The best response is to show someone that you don't care.
The way you respond is absolutely fine.

If you're looking to get under their skin you can say something like,
"Yeah... because you're beautiful!"
In a sarcastic way.

Mysterio421 · Answer

Your not ugly. But also keep in mind the "ugly duckling" becomes a beautiful swan after puberty and all of that.  Check this out:

Anonymous · Answer

People are only considered 'ugly' when they don't fit someone's personal preference. Yea... there are universally attractive people and blah blah blah, but there's always at least one person who'll see you in a different light.
So, do you care about the opinions of a bunch of programmed zombies who've been brainwashed by the media or that one special person?
Even if you haven't found that person, you could just ignore all of them and develop your own self worth outside of people's opinions.
You're not ugly by the way.

kmt2017 · Answer

Honestly if people are rude enough to tell you the then they're not even worth a response. If you respond they will think it hurt you but if you shrug it off and walk away they will be disappointed that they didn't get the reaction they wanted. They want to hurt you and want to sea your reaction, not reacting is the best thing you can do. by the way everyone is attractive to someone, don't worry about what they're saying because I've heard it too and letting it get to you is the worst thing you can do.

JohnnySS · Answer

some people actually think im ugly. to them its true. its relative. to others.. im handsome lol. i think im pretty good looking. im a little offended if someone tells me but i know some people really dont like me and i understand, so im like makes sense. yeah dont kill them with kindness, your not doing yourself any favours your being a push over and sucking up. they see that and take full advantage thats probably why u get called ugly a lot, because you reward their bad behaviour. your an average good looking black male. ugly people usually see good looking people and envy them and call them ugly, so you think they are beautiful even if you scoff at the thought. they want that little acknowledgement that they are beautiful. but they must do the work themselves. you cannot tell them. you can't reward them for bad behaviour. you have to punish them. so get angry and pissed... you will then do them a favor and help them.

MyThoLoGy · Answer

What? My name is not Ug Lee :(

WhiteSteve · Answer

I find my nearest mirror for a confidence boost. XD

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on who calls you ugly, if its aa random person then its better to not react or something like OK great with annoyed look. But if its people you know. Oh well kindness never worked in my case, I've been called ugly, ignored and been laughed at so much in school and you know children can be pretty cruel. So the only thing that worked is to attack first, to make them feel how you feel. And I replied well its not your best day either to girls or something worse because everyone has insecurities and imperfections. After some time none called me ugly and they started to respect me, because in the first place they don't respect you when they call you ugly. And by the way your not ugly at all

Anonymous · Answer

I don remember being called uhly. But I think this would work good:

"Really? Just (ugly/fat/stupid/etc)? What a relief! I thought I was way uglier/fatter/stupider/etc"

It would basically make them feel like they relieved some insecurity when they're trying to make you insecure.

DarkHorse24 · Answer

Tell them "at least I'm not an insecure troll that puts his angst on other people" Or if they call you ugly, just respond with the classic "like yo momma!"

DivaMonae · Answer

I do like your approach and all, but I would just like to inform you that you are not ugly.

Sure you're not a "stud" none of us are but you're not ugly, you're from it!

But personally I think o have a better approach. How about trying to have some confidence for once just looking in the mirror and loving what's staring right back at you. In courage and love yourslef and when someone calls you ugly do what i do laugh hysterically and say you must be joking and smile ;)

Anonymous · Answer

If you don't like the picture don't stare at the painting...

sweetserendipity · Answer

I haven't been called ugly directly but there have been times when the comment was implied. I try not to let others' opinions get to me but sometimes it kind of hurts. When this happens, I don't really respond, I just kind of remain quiet and hope the subject changes. I know I should just shrug it off and let it go but I'm still kind of at that really insecure stage of my life

clarii00005 · Answer

If it's somebody you don't know don't let it bother you. If it's people you hang out with but don't necessarily consider friends they probably just want to bring you down to make themselves look better, which already says a lot about them. Close friends probably just teasing you, I've noticed guys friendships can be a bit harsh sometimes but when you need them they're usually the first ones there for you. I don't know I guess just be confident in who you are. No need/use to make a comeback. You're a handsome guy & nobody should bring you down.

tricegibbs · Answer

First thing I looked at your pic and you are very very handsome. Second maybe those people that call you ugly are actually trying to flirt with you. Thrid when they do call you ugly don't mind it just be like "ok thats fine." there's no reason to be rude because they are. An ugly person is not judge from the outside but the inside shows the true beauty. For the notes YOUR FACE IS HANDSOME.

igk21 · Answer

If that's your picture-you're not ugly. Some people choose to call others ugly when they themselves are insecure or jealous of hot people. People that are really ugly are not considered a threat-so n one actually calls them ugly to their face. It sounds like you have some ugly haters who are jealous of you! Don't let them bring you down!

Kyshy · Answer

I'm sure we've all been there, heard that. I just try to ignore people as best as possible in situations like that. You just gotta remember that you are awesome, and that whatever people think of you, can't bother you unless you let it.

Besides, you aren't unattractive anyway! I think sometimes people just like to say mean things because they have nothing else better to do with themselves.

YaBoy · Answer

Dude, i have a friend were people walked up to his face and called him ugly. but he got a little older worked out and gained a but-load of confidence... BAM he dosen't even need to try with getting girls now. when it comes to looks, girls can be quite forgiving. the biggest thing i seem to notice is confidence, gain confidence and you will become more atractive. so don't listen to whatever doushe bags are saying this to you, its whats inside that matters, its corny, but its soo true!

Marihorror · Answer

Hmmm well my grandmother just called me fat (which is pretty much the worst insult ever in my book) and I just didn't respond at all. Sure, it was pretty hurtful but I don't feel it's worth getting worked up over superficial insults. If anything, it just proves that they can't find anything legitimate to bring up about me.

Raechel · Answer

Ignore all the hate- by saying something back or retaliating, you are making them an important figure in your life, and that shouldn't be the case.

Roycaryn · Answer

That's the appropriate way to deal with it, to sympathize with it. We'd be mistaken to think that they're the only people who could be callous and dismissive in that way. It's likely for example that they're simply jealous (believe it or not there have been similar questions).

In any case, obviously they didn't think before they spoke. Saying something like "Why would you say/do that?" as a genuine question tends to work quite well.

rjroy3 · Answer

I've heard it once in my life from a girl I wasn't attracted to and I responded with, " *sigh of relief* I'm so glad you feel that way. I won't have to worry about you then". I'm not arrogant and think no women find me unattractive, but I know I'm a good looking guy : ).

CaptainJackH · Answer

LOL... the comebacks of some of the ladies are great. I have only been called ugly once by a guy and I laughed and patted his head LOL

Queen_naki5 · Answer

Well, you're not ugly at all. You're actully quite handsome in that photo. I wouldn't even pay them any mind. I've been called ugly and usually it's a person with low self-esteem that would go out of their way to make someone else feel bad. In my eyes, ugly is defined based on how you behave. If you're rowdy, disrespectful and heartless than you're very ugly indeed.

Laura1995 · Answer

I know I'm butt ugly, so I either say "I know" or "Thanks!"
A lot of people say I'm pretty or beautiful but I just can't see it.

I've been called ugly a lot in middle school, but I'm used to it so it doesn't hurt me anymore.

Just ignore them. I bet you're not even ugly.

JustinX9 · Answer

i have never been told that i'm ugly but i feel ugly... i dont get compliments compared to other guys... girls won't even check me out... when i look at them and catches my eye they have this disgusting look... well i dont care.. i take care how i look but the clothes changes and the face is still the same

lauren89 · Answer

I got called ugly a lot when I was younger, it caused me some self esteem issues that I still struggle with everyday.

NiiColl3 · Answer

If someone called me ugly I don't think I would mind, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and where you might look unattractive to some people, you may look like a model others. I've never cared much on peoples opinions of me because everyone's are different and the worse thing you can do is take it too heart, its just words buddy, and the best thing you can is raise an eyebrow and ignore them ( unless its a close friend and they are messing around then you have to think of an even better insult ;) x

Metlahead · Answer

Who the hell called you ugly? You are a sexy beast.

I'd feel bad if they called me ugly, but not for myself, for them. To go out and say something like that when it is totally uncalled for is rude, and is probably just a projection of their own insecurities. People like that cannot bother me because I don't respect their opinions anyway. It just makes me think about what kind of person they have to be to go down that path. It humbles me, and teaches you about how psychology works.

Moro1997 · Answer

Listen man, you aren't ugly at all. I'd even say you look kinda handsome. That's why I can assure you that you should feel better every time someone calls you ugly, if that makes any sense. It's just them being jealous of you. Just tell them, 'Jealousy kills!' That will certainly piss 'em off! :D

lovingme27 · Answer

Some people have really shallow egos. They get off on making others feel bad because deep down they don't feel good about themselves. I would continue to kill them with kindness and keep my head high. It's hard sometimes but try and be unbothered. Or tell them your not too hot yourself with a big smile on your face lol.

BSHakka · Answer

Well! I think you take it serious instead of that you must don't give any response who ever called you because without your response nothing have importance. So just ignore and feel nothing. It's like in winter often we feel more cold but if you feel it more you realize more coldness and incase you just ignore cold you will feel that there is not much cold. So it's our response about any thing and how we deal with it.

1cubby1 · Answer

I can honestly say I have never been called ugly. Am I grateful to never have had such negative people in my life? Hell yes. However, passive aggressive, almost down right foul comments come everyday. I ignore it, try and take the positive out of criticism, and I don't ever let their negativity make me mean. It's so easy to let it in and plague ur beautiful soul. Keep ur head up and find the right people that make u feel like amazing. U can't fight fire with Fire. Be the better person.

_IMAGIRLSOYEAH_ · Answer

Well i dont like insulting people because i know how it feels to be insulted back so i ignore them... but i kinda used to be like this insult queen, i would know how to stand up for myself and one response that i used for being called ugly was "Oh really? That's funny. i was trying to look like you!"

babygirl41398 · Answer

dont lower yourself to there level i get called ugly to but i dont listen to them i know im beautiful in my own little ways so find something you love about yourself and dont let people get to you

Hostile97 · Answer

Just look at them and say "okay " sarcastically. Then look at them like they just asked a stupid question. It really shouldn't matter whar other people think of you what matters is that you know who you are. Dont give someone the pleasure of knowing that they are better than you. Because they aren't,

MariellaRo · Answer

I would always act like I don't care, just raise my eyebrows and not say anything at all, or just "Uh-huh". I have however been dreaming of being brave enough to smile at them in the kindest way and just say "No". Much like how you do it, really. I guess everyone should find the response that makes them feel the best, because that atters, and not the impression you made on the other person (expect if they do it again, obviously, then you can try to figure out a way to get them to back off).

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