All Questions

Why do native Americans have big boobs?

My girlfriend an her family are native American and none of them are small chested? Why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't men wear ballet flats?

im a regular straight guy. I just started wearing "womens" ballet flats about a year ago. honestly I want to know why not. I have no interest in crossdressing, or wearing heels, I just think ballet flats are super comfy...

miami47

Xper 5 Age: 45

Break Up & Divorce

Tell my ex I'm seeing someone new?

so my ex and I had a roller coaster of a relationship for a little over a year. Over this time he broke up with me about 6 times.. but somehow I always took him back. Eventually I realized that we just weren't right for...

maryj420

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why Do I Feel Like My Girlfriend is Avoiding/Ignoring Me?

So this all started two months ago when she confessed to me. We were best friends since 5th grade and now we're in 8th. Anyways, we were on our spring break and she suddenly texted me telling me that she liked me. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

He says he loves me but isn't ready for a relationship?!

I was with my ex boyfriend for only 6 months. I know it's not a long time but it was the happiest and sure relationshipI have ever been in. I dragged my feet a little bit in the beginning as I was scared to admit to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I get my boyfriend to stop smoking cigars and pipe?

I didn't know whether to put this in relationships or health so I went here. My boyfriend who is 18, "causally," smokes. He smoked cigarettes(but told me he would stop yesterday. He now smokes things like cigars, but he's...

muchacho

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why do guys avoid eye contact with the girl they like?

This guy (never talked) went from making confident eye contact with me up close and from a distance, to looking at me from a distance, to avoiding all eye contact from close range (pretending not to see me) but sometimes...

itawtitawapuddytat

Xper 5 Age: 39

Is it a bad idea to send a guy a picture of you?

And no it won't be a naked picture, I'll have clothes on lol. I just met him last night though (and we've been texting today) and my friend keeps telling me not to. I mentioned he said it would be nice to have a picture...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are more white girls doing squats to get the badonkadonk since big butts are "in" now?

It seems that more white girls than I can ever remember by far are doing squats and stuff to make their butts bigger and more round and muscular. I am a huge fan of this, of course, but is this my imagination or is it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to become less wide?

I am a female with broad shoulders. I am on a diet as well as exercising. How can I get rid of being wide up top?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Senior Class T-Shirt Nickname?

I’m a junior in high school and I have to pick out a nickname to put on the back of my senior class t-shirt. What nickname would you guys use to put on the back of a t-shirt? A twitter name, an actual nickname people call...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can excessive "giving each other a hard time" be considered flirting?

I don't know what is it with me and this girl. We have fun talking but we just tease and give each other a hard time a lot. Its not like its all we do, we know each other really well and can read each other like a book so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl says "I'll talk to you later" and then doesn't?

So like if you're texting a girl and she says something like "I have t go to sleep I'll talk to you later :)" but then doesn't start a conversation later does it mean anything? Like was she trying to get out of the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is my boyfriend lecturing me?

He does stupid things without thinking all the time, I get high once I told him and he gets so mad that he ignores me then he just messaged me saying "you know what bothers me is that you do stupid things without thinking...

sperez

Xper 5 Age: 31

Relationships

Feels like my boyfriend and I are drifting apart, please help!!!

We've been in a long distance relationship for a year. In the beginning everything was more than great. We talked everyday through calls & texts, and saw each other almost every weekend. We couldn't keep our hands of each...

AmieK

Xper 5 Age: 33

Dating

Would any early 20s girls date a 28-30 year old

Or would that be too big of an age gap for them? I've recently had dates and flings with girls older than me and I'm 28. I'm tired of dating older women for now, the reason it worked out with them was because they were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Do girls care that guys wear cups in sports?

I don't want the girls to think I'm a wimp for wearing one in baseball

cvb19952

Xper 3 Age: 31

Does the location of your first kiss matter?

I've never kissed a girl before, but my new girlfriend is pretty experienced. She knows I've never kissed anyone and she wants my first kiss to be special. There's this park around half an hour away from where I live...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"I am your friend, but you are not mine."?

Can this occur? Does this make sense? I am confounded by the thought but the more I think about it the more it makes sense. Is it possible that you confide a person but they do not confide in you? That they are a bastion...

blackkid2

Xper 3 Age: 38

How will a shy girl act around her crush?

How will a shy girl act around her crush ? from Distance and few feet away\upclose. i think a, dealing with a semi-shy girl ... if there is some think like that.

confusedtothecore

Xper 4 Age: 35

What does it mean when my crush's friends joke about us dating when he's not here

I was hanging out with with my brother's friends last night(my brother is 6 years older than me). I liked one of his friends for a few years but he was deployed to Afghanistan 6 months ago. I somewhat told him I liked him...

puplecard

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girls, if the guy doesn't ask you out quickly, do you lose interest & stop liking him?

I have noticed that girls will sometimes just stop talking to me and stop flirting out of nowhere. My friends who are girls have said that if a girl likes a guy she will lose interest and stop liking him if he doesn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have a crush on a guy that is around 10 years older then me!

I have this crush on this guy. I am 33 and he is mid 40's. This does not usually happen! I am usually attracted to guys more my age. I have been noticing he has been giving me compliments like "hello gorgeous" and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

She doesn't look into my eyes when we talk

Last week one of my friends told me that a girl from my had been talking a lot about me to her friends. The girl was pretty, intelligent, funny so I decided to start talking with her, getting her number, etc. So after...

Porto

Xper 5 Age: 38

Does my friend have a secret lesbian crush on me?

I have been friends with her for about three years. She's always gotten attached to people super easily and been overprotective but Nothing too bad. She's always been fine when I am just hooking up with a guy, but always...

love_life1987

Xper 6 Age: 39

Dating

Rock climbing for a first date?

So I met this girl online and want to ask her out on a date. She is a nutritionist/ physical fitness coach and on her profile it says she likes to rock climb. Everywhere I read it says the first "meet" should be coffee or...

aeroruler

Xper 6 Age: 39

How can I let him regret letting me go..?

I've been talking with this guy for about two months, we were hitting it off quite nicely (at least that's what I thought) I developed real strong feelings for him, more than any other guy I ever talked to and I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long should I wait?

I met this great guy online 7 weeks ago and we hit it off immediately. I am 45 and he is almost 43. He has been courting me since the beginning like a real gentleman. But then by our third date, there still had been no...

Orchidgirl68

Xper 5 Age: 58

Why do girls like compression shorts so much on a guy?

As suggested by my girlfriend, I started to wear my track and field compression shorts under a shorter pair of normal Nike shorts outside track meets as well. She said they look sexy on me. At first I was a bit uncertain...

Ken177

Xper 6 Age: 31

How to get a guy to open up to you

Guys are harder to get to know like their deep thought and feelings I am stuck and would like to know how to get them to open up

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend randomly texts me and doesn't reply back.

Is he just trying to make his ego big or what? He'll say hey what's up? Like we actually had a conversation 2 weeks ago through text and then after that, he would text me hey every other day. I'd say hey back but he'd...

Anonymous

(36-45)