All Questions

Begging for more while making out, is it normal?

I am a virgin. My boyfriend said that we could wait till I feel ready, and he told me that I could take as much time as I want. Two days ago he came over to my place, he was a little drunk and we made out. Things get...

atlantis91

Xper 6 Age: 34

No kiss on the second date from a shy guy?

I just back from a second date. I know this man is shy...but we spent a wonderful evening watching movies at his place. We sat next to each other, touched...but he never made the move to put his arm around me. I suppose I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend got me a one month anniversary gift... What do I do?

Okay so my boyfriend got me a love necklace and another with my initial on it...I found it he was going to try to engrave one necklace saying I Love (my initial name) and well I was going to get him something (a New...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, do you prefer strength or muscles?

Do girls prefer extremely strong and fit body or kind of strong and jacked. Basically a fit/average looking guy that can lift huge weights vs a muscular guy who is not really strong for his size. For example: 5'8''...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I assume? We haven't talked in a week

So, like in my last question. I met a guy on a non-dating website. We have been talking since early January, so 5 months. We Skype, instant message and e-mail. We have not talked on the phone. We had plans to meet in...

catholicgirl81

Xper 5 Age: 45

Fashion & Beauty

Do you think it's slutty for a girl to show off their belly?

I'm just curious. I were a crop top with some skinny jeans. I had a guy tell em I look sexier and kept looking at my belly area... lol makes me wonder if I really showed that much skin. My crop top was right below my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did Ex unblock me on Whatsapp?

He went into no contact after telling me 'I don't know how I feel about you anymore', two weeks ago. I text him on Day 1, Day 2. No reply. Day 9 I text again saying his silent treatment was ridiculous but I erasing any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Guy has my number but hasn't texted me?

I met this guy at a party but he looked more interested in my prettier friend so I dismissed him & thought him a good-looking guy but myself not being good enough for him. I then saw him about 2 or 3 weeks later at a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Why are horses considered feminine animals?

Just curious. For centuries, horses were primarily ridden by men who worked cattle. But nowadays, horses are viewed as a primarily female animal. I'm not speaking just about showing them, as I can understand why a man...

Prettygurl12

Master Age: 32

Relationships

Is there such a thing as bad luck in love?

I think I have bad luck in love. By this I mean I don´t meet guys who like me, ever, so I never had a boyfriend or anything. I have good looks, I don´t have mental issues and there´s nothing weird or wrong about me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

She thought I forgot about her?

So I went out with this chick once, everything went great she was more forward than me but it was all good we had a blast. We were gonna go out again on Monday but I had some family issues pop up so I rescheduled for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why is the cat-eye so popular?

link Why do girls like to flick the eyeliner at the outer corner of their eyes to create a cat-eye look? What is so attractive about it? Guys, do you find them sexy? I naturally have catlike eyes, meaning the outer...

Daph81

Guru Age: 38

Flirting

Why does she want my attention even though she rejected me?

Rejection-wise, it was pretty brutal. I got the handshake at the end of a date with her. Since we're classmates and see each other fairly regularly, I was expecting a hug. Anyway, the first day after the date, I didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Best female friend's boyfriend hates me. What to do?

Long story short: Was rejected by female friend, started over, and it's well known all at my school that I still like her My friend who I considered a good friend, apparently only considers me an acquaitenance. He went...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What would you think if Tom Welling had "no personality" because of depression?

Obviously people would look at him, but would they actually see something in him from women in their late twenties. Would an attractive women ever date a guy with depression? Let alone get to know him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should the Dumpee Ever Chase the Dumper?

Even if the dumpee nothing wrong and the dumper wanted out because she said was not in love. My ex girlfriend dumped me, was later friendly to me when I saw her 2 months later and following NC. However, a month after...

chx000

Xper 6 Age: 42

How to impress a girl?

Hi my name vishu and I wanted to know how to impress a girl because I love one girl but I don't know what things girls get impressed so help me friends and give me useful tips to impress my lover...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He really wanted to hold my hand, what does that mean?

I hung out with a guy that I've been talking to lately, and he kept teasing me about hold hands. He would be like "quit trying to hold my hand!" And I would tease him back the same way. After a lot of teasing, he finally...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get rid off dents on the sides of my butt?

I'm a dancer and have extremely muscular legs, waist, and butt. I have flat dents on either aide of my butt and it makes the sides of my hips flat. Does anyone know of any exercises or techniques that would work on the...

Sexydncr

Explorer Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Ex girlfriend got me arrested!

well we broke up last Sunday and a few days ago I was angry so I texted her calling a "schizo whore" and I told her to "die". last night police show up at my door and put me in cuffs for making those statements because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I accidentally friend zoned my crush and now we don't talk.

Is I decided that since he "liked a different girl" which turned out to be a lie. That I'd tell him that I like him but wanna be friends. So, I friend zoned him but I didn't know that! After that we haven't spoke. Worst...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you had a choice, would you rather live somewhere cold or hot?

If you had to choose between living somewhere hot or cold, what would you choose? No in between, its either or.

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

Using someone as a human shield. Is it against the law?

Using someone as a human shield. Is it against the law? Would you get prison time for it?

Hamburgers

Xper 3 Age: 82

Fashion & Beauty

Everyone hates my haircut, how can I stop feeling bad?

Hard to come up with a title for this situation that doesn't make me sound like a whiny woman, but there it is lol. I have had long hair for years, about 5 years. Natural, straight, thick and shiny. I've always been...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sleepover third date. Is sex expected? I hope so...

I'm seeing this guy and he initiated a sleepover for our third date. This pretty much means we're going to have sex, right? Thoughts?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's the standard "dating code"/"dating timeline"?

I'm just getting out of my only long-term relationship and am now starting to try out dating, only I'm not sure what the "rules" are. Since I've only been with the one guy since we were really young -- so marrying him was...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Signs you've been friend zoned?

So... was having a chat with my friend. And she came out with 'I think I got friend zoned'. And it made me think. What are some of the signs, more subtle and not, that you may or may give out. Eg. she said because this...

Hidden_P

Guru Age: 33

What does it mean if a guy holds your hand after hugging you

Like he'll give me a small hug and then make his hand all the way down my arm and just hold it for a sec. Not interlocking fingers. Or at the beach, he helped me up and just stood there and stared at me while holding my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Gut feeling/Intuition that someone likes you?

Have you ever felt that someone likes you and it turns out to be true? I want to hear about it! Would you consider that our gut feelings is correct and spot-on not all, but most of the time? Truth is, I am currently...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Am I too short for my crush?

My crush is 6’3 and I’m 5’2. A lot of people say size doesn’t matter when it comes to a girl being short, but i’m sure that being too short may be an issue for some people. so, my question to you taller gentleman, do you...

ohwowitsnotkim

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

LADIES what would you do if you found a man like this?

If you found a guy the size of an action figure in your presence.What would you with him or to him.You can be playful,curious,or annyoed anything you like. P.S.-This is simialr to a giantess and this is something a...

kingjay

Xper 6 Age: 33

What's the difference between Sensual vs Sexual comment

If a guy tells you this "I love having sex with you! So very sensual and so very sexual" I know it's a good thing but what does sensual vs sexual mean?

kmit21

Xper 5 Age: 46