All Questions

Is going for a walk a good first date idea?

So this girl asked me out but left it up to me to pick a time/place/location. To be honest I don't think I am really that into her yet so I don't want to take her to a restaurant or something expensive. She suggested the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He sends me love songs. Is he interested?

This guy I work with and secretly liked stole my number off the wall at work and started texting me. We talked for a opulent of weeks and I like talking to him do I asked him to hang out. I did it over text because he...

Inovermyhead

Xper 3 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Her ex-boyfriend still in the picture...

well my situation is this, I have been with this wonderful girl for two months and she is really special, I want to live with her and I suggested her to move to my place, but she isn't sure about that. one day she wants...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I flirt with the coffee guy?

So I'm kind of clueless at flirting. I'm fine if I'm texting someone, but in person it just seems weird, fake, or forced and I feel like an idiot. Well anyway I have a slight crush on my coffee shop guy. What are ways I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you do with those string things in shirts?

You know how some shirts have those strings inside the sleeves at the shoulder... I assume to help in hanging it up. But I find them very annoying sometimes. Anyway, what do YOU do with them? Keep them because you hang...

ShesSoSilly

Guru Age: 34

How long will a guy pursue a girl if he just wants sex?

i know every guy is different but I have the 3 week rule. if we go on at least a date every weekend and he keeps talking for 3 weeks. I feel like it is more likely he is genuinely interested. week days don't count, and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend never comes up with date ideas... it's always me. How can I get him to step up?

Now that I think about it... I really don't think he has ever planned anything on his own. Maybe our first date.. but even then I picked the second half of the date. I'm always the one to decide the restaurant or movie or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a guy brings up babies?

So I haven't been dating my boyfriend too too long but it's going really well. So well I'm kinda freaking out because I'm not used to it... Anyway the other day he came over my house and some of my family was there with...

Lupelola

Xper 5 Age: 37

Fashion & Beauty

Guys' Hoodies - fitted or lose?

I don't know what looks better on me. Small 'fits' but maybe makes me look kinda small or thin, but medium is slightly baggy and has less shape. Heres about what the sizes look, pay more attention to the waist area....

Anonymous

(36-45)

He asked me what my plans were for the weekend, and it was Monday?

So I was working with this guy yesterday and he asked me if I had much planned for the weekend (It was Monday night). I actually did have my entire weekend booked up because I am attending a seminar and explained this to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Arms touching at the movies?

So me and this guy have gone out a few times, but we've never officially called it a "date" (movies, carnival, ice cream and the park). So a few days ago I went with him, my friend and her date to watch The Great Gatsby...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys laugh when I walk by?

What does it mean when a girl walks by and a guy starts obnoxiously laughing at her? Are guys always obnoxious? Can someone explain what the different reactions are to a girl walking by on the street and why guys do it....

monny28

Xper 3 Age: 35

Family & Friends

My friend savannah is going way too far over my boyfriend

Some signs are that she always texts him everyday,tells him I love you but when I'm around she acts like its a joke,plays with his hair,jumps on his back for a piggy back ride,she use to like him a lot,and she took my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Marriage & Weddings

Is it weird to wear a wife beater in public?

I'm decently muscular already but I'm only wearing it because it's really frickin hot outside. I know most people wear it to show off but that's not what I want to come across as. Would people give me weird looks or anything?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do when a girl ignores your text and phone calls?

I need brutal honesty from the girls on here, and in order to get that I think I need to get into some specific details. Two weeks ago, I met a girl at a club and we hit it off. We talked the whole night and went out to...

jpsmith

Xper 5 Age: 35

Are relationships supposed to be easy or hard?

I've always heard that relationships take work...but how much "work" is normal before it becomes too hard? If a relationship is meant to be, shouldn't it be easy? A bit philosophical, I know, but I'm going through a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend has love letters from his ex in his wallet. Should I care?

We have been dating 9months now. Things seemed to be going great then he left his wallet at my house. He has never let me look through it so I have aways been suspicious of his wallets contents. My yorkie found this...

thatgirlhw

Xper 5 Age: 30

What is your opinion of a woman who spanks her kids and nephew/niece?

Even in front of other people..She says it's her duty as a mother, sometimes.

martyfellow

Editor Age: 46

Why do girls want you more if you're taken?

why do girls that first rejected you get jealous if you start dating other girls?

rabbit316

Xper 6 Age: 34

How to deal with a cocky boyfriend?

My boyfriend is pretty cocky and sure of himself. He was always bragging about himself when we first started dating and over time it kind of annoyed me because I can't stand people like that. Bragging is one of my pet...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The oh so notorious Aquarius man

Let's talk astrology for a bit. I attract Air signs like crazy, especially Aquariuses (which is odd, since I'm Pisces...but hey, must be the Moon in Libra and Venus in Aqua). And I'm different from a lot of Fish in that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How often to text a girl over the summer?

This girl from college definitely knows I like her, so unfortunately the mystery is already gone. Though she may be interested and I want to keep my options open for next semester. So how often do you guys think I should...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would she block me on Facebook again ?

We dated for 2 years and she left me for someone else. It ended badly where she originally blocked my number and my Facebook (we are not even Facebook friends and she still blocked me). A few weeks later she unblocked my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long do you/ did he take to make it official?

Is one month too soon? What is your opinion on one month after is it just infatuation? Or do men use one month just to speed up having sex with the girl if she said she doesn't have sex outside of a relationship

Bunny212

Xper 6 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Boyfriend's friend flirts with me..help please!

ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 years.. his best friend flirts with me all the time.. its not in private or when my boyfriend isn't in the room.. its in front of my boyfriend.. my boyfriend sees...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think the movie "Shrek" makes black women look awful and unromantic/ugly?

I think it does because just look at these pics link the nordic girl link the negro girl and the negro family link You see they present the white fiona as the standard while the wider nosed and...

cindyhaha

Xper 6 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Why does your breathing become short while kissing?

Me and my friend have been asking this question for a while and could never really figure it out. We know it probably sounds dumb.

Raybay

Xper 5 Age: 29

If you text a girl ttyl, does that mean that you have to initiate the next conversation?

I texted a girl ttyl and she said okkk but haven't texted her in a week hoping for her to initiate a conversation but she hasn't. If I said ttyl does that mean I have to initiate it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did she really mean maybe another time?

Both in high school. I asked this girl out to the movies on Wednesday, she said maybe-had to check schedule. I said to let me know, but I never heard from her the rest of the day. On Thursday I was drivin myself crazy so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy keeps jokingly flirting with me does he like me?

We have been sort of friends for a couple of years but last year he started flirting with me as a joke. He would call me babe a lot and now recently he always comes to talk to me in class. Then he asked me out to see a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm too vain to have children?

This is in "other" because it does not fully fit in any of the other categories. First, I would like to make it clear that in most aspects of my personality, I am not vain. I am a very deep, very intuitive, very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, have you ever groped a stranger?

I've been groped a couple times in my life by complete strangers...and I was just wondering how common it is? Do you have friends that have done this?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can you really "see it in their eyes" when someone likes/loves someone?

"He loves you. I can see it in his eyes." I've heard this said on TV, in movies and books, etc. Everywhere, pretty much. And a few months ago my boyfriend's best friend told me, "He loves you, you know. I can see it in...

allison13

Xper 6 Age: 34

Why does he stare at me coldly?

He used to be very warm and friendly towards me. We had a few short conversations but we're not friends. I'm a shy person, so mostly I just smiled and didn't talk much. He stared at me a lot whenever I'm in his vicinity....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl calls me too much everyday?

We just Facebook chatted one time a few days ago and she gave me her number without me asking for it. She wanted me to call her so I did. The thing is that now she keeps calling me like 2 or 3 times a day and I don't...

luisjr

Xper 5 Age: 39