All Questions

Body Shape of Kat Dennings?

I have the same figure as Kat Dennings and I would like to know what men think of her. I get "curvy" and "full figured" when people describe my body shape. I am a bit smaller on the bottom than her as well. I have the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I think my boyfriend is attracted to my 19 year old daughter

About me...I am 45, 5'1 and 113 pds...I'm pretty and people tell me I look 30. I have 6 kids, 5 girls, one boy. I've been in a relationship for 18 months now with a 58 year old man who admits he's always been attracted to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Health & Fitness

What's a good weight to squat/deadlift?

For weighted squats and deadlifts, what's a good weight? 50lbs? 100 lbs? 150lbs? How many reps are recommended?

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Family & Friends

If a girl wants to "chill" does she want to as friends or something more?

Randomly, today, she texted me and quickly mentioned that we should "chill" sometime after she found that we are indeed in the same city now. We've never been anything more than casual work friends and neither of us has...

GoingforGold

Xper 4 Age: 35

Texting less after a first date?

I met this guy who texted me every day for 2 weeks, and then we finally went on a date which I thought went really well. We talked for almost 3 hours, and at the end he said he wants to meet again. It even seemed like he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why so many female teachers tend to seduce and have sex with their students?

I read a article about the involvement of female teachers in seducing and having sex with their students.The students are immature so they are not to blame but the teachers are responcible and have a responsibility for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why is my boyfriend so stupid?

I bought a new bathing suit and it looks really good on me. My friends were like ooh wait til your boyfriend sees you in that. So I told him I got a new bathing suit and was excited to show him it ;). So I go to his pool...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird if I get a blanket my boyfriend?

I just bought one with my dad, it's UNBELIEVABLY soft. Every time my boyfriend stays over mine, he likes to sleep with my fuzzy blanket. He doesn't have a soft one at home so I was thinking of randomly buying him one, for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to ask a girl to come over, without implying sex

I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks (5 dates), she made it clear that we won't be having sex until we're "official" (which I don't mind). Everything is going perfect we have fun, we both like each other. We...

saulwhite

Xper 5 Age: 35

Women: how bad is body odor?

How bad is b.o ? I mean if a really hot or cute guy was shopping and you went by him and he had strong b.o not the good kind like whatever excites you from your lover but b.o. let's say your not so hot nor cute is...

Crispin7

Xper 3 Age: 38

Guys how do you react when a girl cries?

Guys how do you react when you see a girl cry? Or what do you think? I'm a cryer, many people don't think I am because I usually try not to cry in front of people. I think about only 3 guys have seen me cry. Two of three...

youllthinkofme

Xper 3 Age: 32

Why don't guys wish girls Happy Birthday?

The guy I like has never wished me a happy birthday even though I wish him one every year and give him a card and present. Is it a guy thing or is he not interested? Am I reading into this too much?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I want him back. Cancer ex ignoring my messages?

I've known him for a year off and on. The break up was do to my behavior. And I've really learned my lesson. I've tried to reach out to him only twice in the last message I said "Just wanted to apologize for my behavior I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are Indian men desperate for white women?

They are always asking for "foreign" wives and thinking a white woman would better them in life. Same with Chinese men.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why do guys put their hands in front of their crotch?

When I'm at work male customers always do this. I work at a grocery store. Then when their below the waist part isn't seem by the counter they move their hands. Is it because they are hard

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl freezes up around you?

what does it mean If a girl freezes up around you badly and tenses up around you when you approach her? also if she freezes up and tenses up when she is in a group and she catches you looking at? (I would say that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do compliments get you put in the 'friend zone'?

I find this advice that people always give really confusing. I understand that excessive compliments aren't a good thing but people act as though you should totally avoid it and just play 'hard to get'. It doesn't really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I go about trying to reconnect with a guy after not talking via text for a few weeks?

We went out one night, had a great time. I went out of town for a week. Then he went out of town for a week. Tried to meet up in between but our schedules didn't cooperate. Since the back and forth trying to meet up...

datingsucks

Xper 5 Age: 42

Shopping & Gifts

Guys, (and girls) , what do you consider a modest girl to be?

Modest as in looks and dresses like a lady without being slutty and trying to get guys sexually but is still modern. What are your thoughts when you can see a little cleavage on a girl, shorts, ect. What would you like...

Imasmileygirl

Xper 5 Age: 34

7 dates. She still checks her online dating profile

I'll keep this short and sweet. Met a girl online. Over the course of 2-3 months we've been on 7 amazing dates. She's really in to me. Loads of hugging, holding hands, kissing on her part. She's invited me to stay around...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys! Have you ever treated a girl bad and regretted?

Guys! Have you ever treated a girl bad and regretted later in life.Like you were a complete jerk while dating and even after the break up...Did you try to mend things...or just felt bad

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

At what weight do you think a girl is too heavy?

I don't mean according to bmi, I'm asking for your personal preference. What is your ideal weight range for a 5'7 woman?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What do girls mean when they say looks aren't everything?

I was talking to my friend and out of no where she just tells me looks aren't everything

IsaiahM

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do you always ignore or avoid attractive people?

I will admit, I avoid attractive women because I know they're taken or have a husband who will beat my *** if I saw hi to her. So I don't bother even saying hi to a woman I consider is out of my league. Which is mostly...

Bornnardmt

Xper 3 Age: 36

When a guy asks for a back scratch

So right after sex, I blatantly tell him I have a flight to catch in the morning, realizing I only had 4 hours to sleep, I tell him I have to snooze. I get into bed, and he tells me, if I would scratch his back until he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls competing for a guy's attention

Girls, have you ever been in a situation where another girl is competing for your crush? Three of you are mutual friends. Maybe you think you are closer to him and you feel like you have a chance but she is still trying...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

Why do guys beat around the bush?

when you tell a girl that you clearly want her to come over, why say "oh if your bored and want to come out, I'm home". just say you want us to be there with you. are they scared of rejection?

xxdreamer423xx

Xper 5 Age: 42

What does it mean when a girl initiates conversations with a guy she knows and STILL seems nervous?

Does that make sense? She knows me and I usually wait for her to start a conversation or joke with me (which she usually does) but after the fact she still looks nervous, doesn't look at me that much, plays with her phone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he ask about my weekends plans?

This guy has put every classic sign out there that he likes me but he's one of those shy guys. He used to ask me what I was doing that day whenever he saw me. Lately its turned into asking what my weekend plans are and he...

girlinred1987

Xper 5 Age: 38

Girls, do you think short guys are inferior ?

Do you think short guys (5ft6 and less) are inferior and less manly? And if you are taller than him you think of him more inferior and less than you and you feel you can easily dominate and suppress him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I kissed my crushes best friend

So basically I've been crushing on this guy for a few months now. We chat pretty much all the time and flirt. He doesn't know I like him and I don't know if he likes me but we seem to be really hitting it off. Last night...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do men prefer Boobs or booty?

I want to just see how many prefer what one over the other. I'm 32c but my boobs are small in my opinion. But, I definitely have a round butt. My fiancé doesn't really say anything ever about my body...I want honesty, not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy puts his arm around your shoulder?

Well, there's this guy and I kind of get the feeling he likes me because he has said so when he's out drinking and he also pinched my ass which don't get me wrong was...embarrassing and awkward cause I had no idea what to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He's still texting, but no third date planned?

First date lasted 12 hours, second lasted 24, and he said he wanted to see me again. He texts me every day for a quick conversation, but it's been 5 days and he hasn't made plans for the third date (even though he tells...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How many dates before becoming exclusive?

Guys or girls, how many dates before becoming exclusive or a couple? Is it OK for a girl to ask to be exclusive?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls: A guy introduces himself and shakes your hand. He then kisses your hand. Your reaction is?

A guy approaches you (whether it's in a bar/club, coffee shop, library, anywhere. You are in public) and introduces himself. You then introduce yourself and you guys shake hands. He then kisses your hand. What is your...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do strangers always talk to me? Do people have auras or something?

Me and other people have noticed that I always get approached by strangers, tourists asking for directions, guys flirting, homeless begging and weird people being weird (the kind that make my intuition ring all...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex-girlfriend used me as a reference for a job, what should I do?

I dated a girl for only a month, and she broke up with me. That was three weeks ago, and since then she calls me every day and talks a lot but says she isn't ready for a relationship right now and needs to figure herself...

detroit87

Xper 6 Age: 38

Is hair twirling attractive to guys?

When a girl twirls her hair around her fingers,do guys think it's attractive?If so,why?

ItGirl25

Xper 5 Age: 29