All Questions

Taking prescription pain meds before getting a body piercing?

I'm going to get my dimples pierced and I have some old 50mgs Ultram/tramadol that I never used. If I take this before the piercing will it completely remove all the pain for me? I really want it done but I'm kinda a wimp...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

What's the origin of the phrase "Once you go black, you don't go back" and does it have any truth to it?

Who came up with this phrase, why, and why is it a popular phrase? And if its true why does this phrase continue to live on?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girlfriend always wants me to apologize for stuff I didn't do.

So I told my girlfriend I would be on campus at a certain time just in casual conversation to let her know what my week would be like. She ended up going to campus to do homework and to drive me home to be nice. I...

Frunkiss

Xper 6 Age: 39

Should I be embarrassed about living in a trailer home?

I'm extremely embarrassed about living in a trailer home, and I'm afraid to tell my boyfriend where I live.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you REALLY not get complimented that often?

I've often heard guys talk about how they barely get compliments. I've heard guys say they haven't been complimented in YEARS, and that when they do they think about to compliment for days. I get complimented at least a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you think a mons pubis that sticks out is attractive?

I'm 5'5 and weigh 125lbs, I'm not fat but my mons pubis sticks out. Especially when I wear leggings or a tight dress/skirt. Is this attractive? I need honest answers.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some men try to impress girls with their money?

Is it because they're nervous, have self esteem or think that woman is a whore? I go to college near silicon valley and well aside from students there are a lot of very wealthy people here. I recently went out with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date someone poorer than you?

I'm middle class and this girl I'm talking to is from a rich family. We are both in college in the same class. I reckon that we are compatible at almost every level we've discussed so far. As a guy I've been taught to be...

TedStar

Guru Age: 35

Why do some women give fake compliments?

I've never understood why some women give out fake compliments? They know its a fake compliment and they know the guy is shaking is head in disbelief. I've only received ''Compliments'' online and never in person. I...

Whitechocolate1001

Xper 3 Age: 41

He says my butt is "cute" instead of sexy/hot, does that mean anything?

I've never really heard a guy describe a girl's ass as being 'cute' so it seemed kinda odd when he said it. I was laying on top him after making out and he grabbed it and said it was cute.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls stand so close to me?

Like for example at the bus station some girls really get so close to me as if they want me to bump on them. When there is so much space. Is it some kind of signal? Or do they feel protected because I am musculine gym guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Virgo women only?

there is a virgo female who stare at me and when I look at her eyes she would stare back at my eyes and she get nervouse , sometimes she smile and when I look at something she would look to see wht I'm looking at , we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Describe your worst day of your life and your best day of your life.

What was the best day and worst day of your life? What happened? Was it a death of a loved one? Was it getting a DUI or failing out of school? Was your best day finding your mate? A birthday memory? A day that you landed...

222fallguy2

Yoda Age: 36

Thoughts on purple lipstick?

What do you think of bright purple lips? Yay or nay? link

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell if a girl is actually flirting with me?

So I'm a really tall guy; around 6'11, and I get a lot of girls just gawking because I'm so tall. A lot of them also say things like "Omg, you're so tall", "how tall are you?", etc But I don't know how much of this is...

serp777

Yoda Age: 34

I'm about to date a d1 female swimmer (not trying to be arrogant). Tips to not mess anything up?

I don't want to come across as arrogant. That being said this is a huge opportunity for me. I was a VERY awkward shy, quiet guy before college. The whole time I've been finding out my place in the universe and how to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you ask a guy to go to vice versa in a cute way?

He plays basketball and baseball. we are good friends and we have math together

Anonymous

(30-35)

If your girlfriend is always hiding or turning the laptop when your next to her what would you think?

ok my girlfriend for 5 years now is always doing this when of twitter or social sites,I want to ask her for her twitter password cause of the insecurity with that but I wasn't sure if it was the right thing to do, But I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he initiate conversation and then disappear?

I don't understand him. He initiates conversation and then disappears. He was not always like this and he is a texter and is glued to his phone It upsets me. He initiates! Why? I gave him space and didn't message him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Thoughts on thigh high socks/stockings?

I really like wearing thigh high socks and stockings a lot with my dresses and combat boots. I know it can go "slutty" looking really easily, especially with stockings, but I'm super careful with how I wear them. What do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long does it take for a smiley piercing to close close up?

I have to get an MRI and so I have to take out my smiley piercing, I'm just worried that it will close up or start to close up before I could put my ring back in. So does anyone know about how long it would take? -...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you let your long distance boyfriend go to prom with another girl?

I don't know... I'm very skeptical because he let me down once before. I really want to trust him, but jealousy is clouding my judgement.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys : Are you annoyed by handsome men who date plain janes ? ( I am)

Examples link link link 1.I think not dating in your looks class, upsets the balance of what other guys can obtain in the meat market. Every average girl taken by a better-looking guy is one less girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what goes through your mind when you kiss a girl?

(or guy, etc..) And also, do you actually like kissing? Is it just a precursor to more sexual acts? As a girl, I don't find kissing enjoyable in just the physical act, but in the emotional sense. My mind goes blank, I...

sdorito

Xper 6 Age: 29

Health & Fitness

Self harm scars ? ways of healing

Does anyone know of any good procedures or creams that can clear up self inflicted scars? Silicone has had some results. Anything else that has worked for you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls say they like ‘ambitious’ guys?

Why don’t they say they like guys who are wealthy or likely to be wealthy in the future? That’s closer to the truth. I have a friend who inherited a fortune but who has absolutely no ambition in life. He just parties and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do about my boyfriend putting me down in front of his friends?

Last night, I was at a party with my boyfriend and a few of his friends. We were watching the TV when people started talking and were engaging in conversation. I turned to say something to my boyfriend and in the middle...

Teflon

Xper 5 Age: 37

Family & Friends

Why does every girl I meet "friend zone" me?

Ever since my only serious relationship that ended 2 years ago, every single girl that I've met and grow to have feelings for always seems to sooner or later reject me by saying something like "oh you're such a sweet guy...

Skidmark69

Xper 5 Age: 32

My crush smirked at me? What does that mean?

My friend told my crush I like him were in college, and when I ran into him in the elevator he wasn't looking at me he was looking at the wall and he was just smirking?Bad sign? Guys what does this mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to deal with a guy who is a terrible texter?

So I'm dating this guy and we've been together since December. We are long distance due to university, so texting is our main form of talking. Sometimes we text everyday, and sometimes it takes him days to respond to me....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls generally care if guys aren't "experienced"?

I'm 21 years old, I've never had sexual relations with anyone, never had a steady girlfriend, but I have kissed girls before (my last kiss was 3 years ago so I haven't had much recent practice :P). I'm always told by my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you assume someone was racist for wearing a mjölnir necklace?

by mjölnir I mean a thor's hammer necklace like the vikings used to wear to celebrate the god Thor. Nothing too fancy or elaborate. I'm a huge fan of norse mythology and viking history and I think it's a cool symbol....

RedThread

Master Age: 38

Do girls like receiving good morning texts?

Girls, do you like it when your guy sends you a good morning text? I think it's a confusing thing to do because I wake up pretty early (around 7:00-8:00) and because I can't predict when my girl is going to wake up and so...

BustedKnuckleBoy88

Xper 3 Age: 35

Copping a feel durring a hug?

Can you feel our boobs during a hug, and if so what does it feel like?

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a married man texts you when he's drunk/buzzed, what does it mean?

One of my friends is married, and ever since we've known each other, pretty much any time he's gotten drunk or tipsy he's initiated a conversation with me via text. I asked his friends and they said he almost never does...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get him to stop touching me?

There's this guy who's a really good friend of mine. He always flirts with me, but nowadays he keeps touching me, like poking my sides in class, smelling my hair(wtf?!), grabbing my hand out of nowhere, etc. I tell him...

Hiwannabefriends

Xper 5 Age: 30

Do you think Philip Seymour Hoffman will be overrated now that he's dead?

He's dead now, so people will give him more credit than he deserves. Do you think Philip Seymour Hoffman will be overrated now that he's dead?

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Girl's Behavior

What is emotional connection?

this phrase gets thrown around like a ragdoll. but what is it

dave4u

Xper 2 Age: 37

Can't stop thinking about a stranger?

I see this guy around my campus a lot. I notice him staring at me sometimes and we often make long eye contact. He is a complete stranger, but I find myself very infatuated with him for some reason. Why does this happen?...

Anonymous

(36-45)