All Questions

Why do men spend so much time at the gym when muscle mass is not a large factor to women?

I mean you can't get taller at the gym, you can't get a better face at the gym, you don't get a more charming personality at the gym, you don't make money at the gym. In real life women always say that they like cut...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I just found out my best friend is a lesbian! What do I do now?

I've known her for nearly two years and we became great friends. We actually are a group of three best friends, I´ve known the other girl for like 5 years and she has a boyfriend. Well, a couple of weeks ago she and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm a 34 year old woman, and I'm dating a 21 year old guy. I'm attractive and look like I'm in my 20's.

What do guys think about this? Will it work or just end badly?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I can't keep up financially with my boyfriend?

How do I explain this to him? We've been dating for a little over a year. I am a 19 year old broke college student who is unemployed at the moment. My boyfriend is an 18 year old high school senior whose parents...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend is a racist-why is he with me then? wtf

I am dating my guy for about 6 months now and he has been great and respectful, he treats me like a lady. we have been open with each other about "race" issue from the start. We make jokes and talk about racial...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is anyone dying to move out but can't afford it? (rant)

I'm 22, I live at home, I have one more year of school to finish and it's really time for me to move out. I had to come back home because I didn't graduate in 4 years, my school is too expensive so the plan was to finish...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Gaze Into My Eyes, Is He Just Being Polite?

There's this guy, every time I talked to him, 90% of the time, either I look at him or not, he will gaze deep into my eyes while talking to me. He only dart of his eyes to his right on and off when he's trying to think on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Moral dilemma: Would you rather save your dog or your baby?

If you had no choice but to save one, which would you save? Let's say you've had the dog for a long time and have grown very attached to it, while the baby of course is a new born. You can only save one of them...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Signs of being too skinny?

Although I still have a healthy BMI of 18.9 people are commenting that I'm getting too skinny. I don't think I look skinny at all but I noticed my periods are getting irregular and my skin is getting drier can this be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My girlfriend is texting guys late at night and deleting the messages?

The people she texts she had sex with in the past and one she had cheated on me with. She feels like its not wrong because its just a text message. I just don't want her texting them period. Am I right or wrong. Are...

dmegaa

Xper 5 Age: 37

Boyfriend's arm around waist meaning?

Ive been going out with him for nearly a month now, and whenever we walk, sit or stand anywhere, he always keeps his arm around my waist. I have no problem with it, in fact I love it, but I just wanna know exactly what it...

ImJustBeingMe

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Why does he stare back intensely (blank face) if not interested?

I'll initiate the staring and he'll stare back at me in my eyes blank face. he's confident...but I thought guys look away when they see ugly things looking at them lol this staring contest I start has happened multiple...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get out of the friend zone with ex boyfriend?

My ex boyfriend and I get along so perfectly but I feel like he just sees me as a buddy now. How do I get him to want me again? What can I do? Don't just say "move on" ha ha I know that's what I should do, but I want to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys what do you think of girls who knit?

I'm curious... I've known how to knit since I was little but I've recently gotten really into it in the last year or so. I love it! I have learned so much and I can now make scarves, hats, fingerless gloves, shawls/wraps,...

siquetumeamaste

Xper 6 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

How do you feel when you see your ex happy without you?

Everyone says people feel sad/regret when they see their exs happy without them. For psychology purposes, what do you have to say? Take your happiest relationship: they treated you great, you were happy, in love, and...

JapanTomboy

Xper 3 Age: 32

Guys wearing leopard print?

What do you think about this new thing I've seen recently...men wearing leopard print? I think it looks cool but I don't know if straight guys do that, or if the guy is gay or bi.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

"A man curses because he doesn't have the words to say what's on his mind. "

This is a quote taken from the movie Malcolm X by Spike Lee. Do you agree or disagree with it?

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

Is It rude to not tell people where I bought my clothes

People I work with frequently ask me where I bought certain pieces of clothes because they want to buy them. I really hate seeing my twin every wear is there a polite way to not tell people

Lizzielu

Xper 6 Age: 45

Why would a guy touch a girl's lower back

is it always a sign of affection, or can it be just an automatic gesture..ie. guys, would you touch the lower back of a girl who you weren't attracted to?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girls, if a guy invites you to go somewhere with you do you consider it a date?

If a guy you don't really know all that well but you see frequently invites you to go somewhere with him at some point in the future but leaves it up to you if you want to go do you assume it's a date or do you think of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is is creepy to text someone merry Christmas if she never texts you first anymore?

So this girl and I really liked each other last year. she texted me dduring break. but for some dumb reason in the middle of our conversation I stopped texting her. she was prob upset. then we never talked in person...

helloyes

Xper 6 Age: 34

What does a guy mean when he says "we should mess around"?

So a guy I just met (he was asking around about me before I officially met him) seems to be really interested in me and he's nice and everything and seems to be interested in being in a relationship, but I don't know that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My best friend kissed me but I have a boyfriend and he knows..Help!!:(

So as the title says my best friend of 3 months kissed me yesterday..He knows I have a boyfriend but we already made it so that's we are good friends because we have a lot in common but we were hanging out talking (he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do most girls go for famous celebrity guys compared to guys they meet through friends?

Girls always go for guys like Justin Bieber over a guy that approaches her at random places. Also when she first meet a guy though mutual friends, once she starts out as friends with him, "after he confessed his crush on...

womensuck

Xper 5 Age: 43

Girls when you are inside your house do you wear any footwear

I never do. When I am inside my house I am always in my bare feet it is much more comfortable then wearing socks or slippers.

barefootamy

Xper 5 Age: 38

Asked out girl, she said she had boyfriend? excuse?

I was out last night at a bar - ended up chatting a pretty cute girl. She seemed friendly but very "neutral" to me (no touching, not too much giggling). She was never creeped out by me though and we chatted for about...

Radiohead200

Xper 3 Age: 40

Why do sparks fade between people?

Have you ever felt like you met someone who was "the one" and 2-3 weeks later you have nothing to talk about... How does that spark fade? What happens to it? What changed?

roxygirlskier

Yoda Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Do guys seriously think looking like a Victoria Secret model would be easy?

I mean an attitude like this: I had a discussion with a friend and that is exactly what he said. He also said the way VS models look is the most natural and all women could look like that if we just didn't overeat....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I her backup plan?

I don't know, there's just this girl I've become really good friends with, and while I know that she has a boyfriend I can't help but feel that she flirts with me a lot, lets me dance close when out drinking, wants me as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why doesn't he take it a step further?

He is my colleague and I like him. We work together since 10 months. Their firm is based in another city, but sometimes they come to the city where I am based, because we work on some projects together. Last week was the...

Innocenceltd

Xper 5 Age: 45

What does it mean when a guy gets you to touch his abs?

So I like my guy friend who's most probably oblivious to it all, while at work talking he started showing off his arm muscles and got me to touch them, then he lifted up his shirt and got me to feel his abs, and actually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what does it mean when he won't dance with you?

I guess this question requires some knowledge of the American club/bar scene, so keep that in mind as I ask... My friends and I often like to go out to bars/clubs and go dancing. We dance with each other - girls dancing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She gets tongue tied around me. Why?

There's this girl, I kinda hinted that I like her. She's really quiet in class but has a lot of friends outside of school. the first few days, she was like smiling coyly at me, happy looking and her friends would stare...

giancarlo311

Xper 5 Age: 32