All Questions

Are flabby arms a complete turn off?

So I have a somewhat unusual problem. My body is slim/curvy, but my arms are chubby. No, not chicken wings chubby - but enough so that it's significant. My body is a mixture of big-Tyra and skinny-Tyra - pretty much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls when you call a guy "boo" what is your intention behind it?

what percent of the time is it 1)flirting 2)playfulness 3)casual 4)showing you care for them 5)show affection or whatever it may be, just curious about when you call a guy Boo, and how to distinguish if it is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How many dates before you kiss?

If you're looking for a relationship with someone and you're taking things kind of slowly...approximately how many dates is appropriate before you kiss? Would you kiss on the first date? Would you want to wait...

TurbulentDan12

Yoda Age: 36

What does it mean if a guy mirrors you?

I've noticed that my crush mirrors my body language and I was just wondering if it means anything. It seems kind of odd that someone would do that.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he smile when I'm mad?

..its not like a smile but a smirk when I'm bitching at him and he is just starring at me as if its all a joke ... is it cause he doesn't take me serious has no respect... I don't get it and it makes me even more upset...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl gives me a half smile?

Me and this one girl kinda know each other but not very good. She looks at me and gave me a half smile a couple times. What does this mean?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Would you date a religious girl?

I.m christian and I am saving myself for marriage. I know its not really common to do that anymore, but I want to be a virgin on my wedding night and only be with my husband. So guys, would you date/marry a religious girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My brother's best friend asked me out...should I avoid or go for it?

I've only met him a couple of times but we always seem to have a laugh,giggling away like we are the only two people in the room, I don't want to pass up on the offer however I don't want to hurt my brothers feelings..he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why do people think black girls are ugly?

I don't get it. what's so ugly about them? Is it because they are usually "loud" and "ghetto"? What about the ones who "act/talk white"?

happyhappy

Xper 3 Age: 32

Boat shoes to a bar?

Summer of course. i rarely wear pants Because I get really hot so I wear cargo/khachi shorts with a button up shirt or polo. will a pair of boat shoes be acceptable to wear to the bar?

niceguy_27

Xper 5 Age: 35

Guys could you still be attracted to a girl who is 4ft7, full grown adult height?

Honestly speaking would you date a girl this short? I'm not a midget I'm in proportion. I need some honest answers. Yes I do sleep with quite a few guys because I think that's all they want and when they put there moves...

hannahs2

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Do guys ever encourage their friends on to cheat on their girlfriend?

If you're all out clubbing and drunk,do you guys ever egg on your friends to cheat?Obviously the guy is an a hole if he cheats,but if they do cheat,why?Is it the peer pressure or the temptation?Do you know of a guy who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I am really mean, and I push people away. PLEASE HELP!

I have this affliction where in my mind, I want friendship, accomplishment, love and happiness. But in reality, I am alone, angry, unconfident and mediocre at best. Something is wrong. For whatever reason, I have a...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

Normal for girlfriend to send pictures to other guys?

Is it normal for my long distant relationship girlfriend to send pictures of herself to other guys? (normal; nothing sexy) I don't want to tell her to stop or anything since I don't want to be controlling. I told her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Does he just want me for sex?

So I recently started talking to a guy from my middle school class (I'm in college now) and we had a good time talking so we hung out. Then after that he asked me to go on a date. I said yes thinking, okay, kinda weird...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are guys intimidated by a stylish girl?

I sew my own clothes...it's always a black/white combo (very classy)...I have a strong fashion sense and it shows in my attitude (I'm very confident while wearing my pieces) Guys are always staring but none has ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I rejected him, why can't we still be best friends?

OK so my best friend that I have known forever and liked forever (and he has liked me forever) asked me out and I have always dreamed of him doing that but when he asked me out I started getting thoughts of what we could...

goofygirl34949

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Why would she want closure?

Why would a girl want closure if she already has a new guy? The girl I was dating and living with developed a relationship with a new guy. She eventually lied to me and I found out she was hanging out with him while I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

Do Caucasian guys hate Caucasian girls?

I watched this video entitled "Why White Guys Should Like Brown Girls." on YouTube. It made me wonder if Caucasian men hate Caucasian women now? Then, read the comments. Here some of them are: "white girls suck. who...

milakunis616

Xper 3 Age: 42

Health & Fitness

Would you eat ant infested cookies?

I got into the habit of hiding my cookies and chocolate etc. in the conservatory in winter so I just kept doing it and yesterday put my oatmeal cookies in there... completely forgetting the pretty much Mediterranean...

Electric_Dreams

Explorer Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Can you ever get over someone who broke your heart twice?

My best lad friend has just had his heart broken twice by a girl in the space of a month. Will he ever get over her or this?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend want to go on a 'lads holiday'?

he wants to go away for a week with like 4 of his boys. he wants to go ibiza which is kinda known for just sex, sea and alcohol I trust him 100% but all his friends are single and are obviously looking for girls the...

PrincessBubble

Xper 6 Age: 33

The love of my life won't fight for me

We met and had a connection instantly, we lived in completely different countries and 1k mi away from each other, we fought against all odds to be together, and everything seemed beyond perfect. This was it, this was the...

Lostandhopeless

Xper 5 Age: 39

Flirting

I gave him my number...then he gave me his?

I met this guy at a party last weekend (21st) and we had a blast all night. We ended up exchanging fb and he asked for my phone # and I gave it to him. Unfortunately we live about 2 hours away. Then I don't hear from...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do most girls love a teddy bear?

but they do not love a very hairy guy , who is naturally hairy like a teddy bear all over his body?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Job promotion that I can't handle, what should I do?

I've recently have been promoted at my work. I work for a Toyota dealership, my previous position was used sales manager, I only took care of the sales for the used cars. While I was at this position, I managed to make...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when boyfriend says leave me alone and doesn't contact you the whole day

Me and my boyfriend had a silly argument its kinda my fault he'd had a busy busy day at work finally got home to rest, we were texting each other and we had a little row, he told me didn't have energy to speak to just...

lovelorn

Xper 5 Age: 37

Society & Politics

Does the amount of w's in an 'aw' change the meaning?

does the amount of w's you put in an 'aw' mean anything? hahah weird question I know, but my friend and I are debating it. I think that 'aw' - just a normal word, like aw yeah.. But 'aww" means like aww cute, and then...

Anonymous

(30-35)